Mother

[mars2000]

My mom is in hospital and doctors have given short time days. She is last stage of cancer it came back she was in second stage before. They given her affionitior.

The hospital due to covid is not letting me get in before 2pm. I'm copping with the process of death as this life is just a test, i hope i see my mother before she goes and she goes peacfully.

Also god can do miracles so never say never but im full aware of the other side also..

Im in my 30s. I know that no matter my cousin, my wife and other say as it affects you no one will understand, but it made me reflect on things. Im reflecting what i will say to her to make it easy as tellling some one that is dying is the hardest thing and will make them upset or go into crisis. The hardest thing is to accept is that you cannot do anything.

They given her a choice to medicine i dont know what to do take her home or give her more medication.

The problem with medication im afraid will make her worst as it has and  may go in agony.

 

[ektk]

Thoughts are with you! My mom recently passed and she want in the hospital unconscious for days. We eventually brought her home on hospice where they gave her meds for pain and anxiety until she finally passed. I'm heartbroken and feel your pain. I hope you get to see and talk to her. My mom couldn't talk to us but we all assured he it was ok to go and that while we would miss her like crazy, we would all be ok and watch over each other.