Every work day

[Billie Rae]

So there is only one road to go to work on,its a small one lane residential street and last month there was a house torn down and the carpenters have started framing the new one and it HURTS I drive by and see the guys in their tool belts low on their hips and hear the saws and nail guns and remember all the jobs I went on with Charlie,his boss had a house on the beach and he only wanted Charlie to do his work so on summer weekends we would go and he would work and I would run the dog on the beach.So now every morning I have to go to work early because watching them building this house makes me have to pull over and sob and hurt.I hope they finish in a hurry.

 

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[JES]

@Billie Rae  Oh Im so sorry...that must be so hard.....and not even a way to avoid it.  So many reminders, every where we go....Im so glad I dont work as I can avoid so much. My heart goes out to you...sending love. Jeanne

[SSC]

6 hours ago, Billie Rae said:

 

So there is only one road to go to work on,its a small one lane residential street and last month there was a house torn down and the carpenters have started framing the new one and it HURTS I drive by and see the guys in their tool belts low on their hips and hear the saws and nail guns and remember all the jobs I went on with Charlie,his boss had a house on the beach and he only wanted Charlie to do his work so on summer weekends we would go and he would work and I would run the dog on the beach.So now every morning I have to go to work early because watching them building this house makes me have to pull over and sob and hurt.I hope they finish in a hurry.

 

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I get it.  My husband worked for the local utility company.  I get so sad when I see their trucks or the guys doing work around town.  I also see the jobs he designed all around our valley.  He left his tangible “work” all over.  It makes me sad but I know he was proud of what he did, that  he helped build something that would last a long time.

[GrievingSoul]

11 hours ago, Billie Rae said:

So now every morning I have to go to work early because watching them building this house makes me have to pull over and sob and hurt.

I feel this way about every place I go to in my home town now. No matter what I do, from grocery shopping to getting some cold tea from my favorite place, it just reminds me of what we used to do. It’s torturous sometimes 

[KayC]

Alas reminders come in a myriad of ways, sometimes when we least expect them, sometimes they obtrusively hit us over the head like your seeing the workmen on your way to work.  These are the things we experience that people don't see...

[Billie Rae]

Alas reminders come in a myriad of ways, sometimes when we least expect them, sometimes they obtrusively hit us over the head like your seeing the workmen on your way to work.  These are the things we experience that people don't see...

Yes,so true.It makes me relive the pain each time.maybe one day I will be able to see them with fondness but today it's pure pain.

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