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Hello everyone I'm 24 years old my name is Toscha I was 20 weeks and 4 days pregnant with my daughter and on july 17, 2010 i had lost her. I was wondering if there is anyone out there that has lost a baby and could help me or give me advice of how to get through this. I struggle almost everyday and my mind wonders and makes me think it is my fault that i lost her. Please I am trying to find peace i know my daughter wouldn't want me to be miserable my whole life but it so hard. I never been through this before this is my first time and my first child....

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I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby girl!  Please, join us on the loss of an adult child site.  It a more active thread and it doesn't matter how old your child was.  You will be free to talk about all the mixed up emotions and guilt you're feeling. 

This is a difficult road.  There is no way out of it except for through...and, the "through" hurts like hell!

Susannah/Stephanie's mom

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Thank you so much sweetie for you comment. I will come and join you all in that group thanks.. and yes it is a rough rocky road that will hurt more and more each day.

Genessee's Mommy 4 ever

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Dear Members,

We are excited to mention that we are moving to a more new and improved message boards on MONDAY MORNING AUGUST 9th! The boards will be done for a few hours while we are making the conversation. Remember we posted information about this move a month ago. For some of you this might seem a bit sudden,  but when we were reviewing the site we determined the current message board you are using is out of date and the company that designed it is no longer in existence. The good news is this new message board will have new features that have been requested in the past like more fields we can add to your profiles and a chat room up to 20 people at one time. If we find the chat room is bursting at the seams we will add additional room for extra people. All your old posts, private messages and such will be migrated to the new message board. You might have to put up your profile picture again but not sure. The new company will be doing the migration for us. Here is a short list of some of the new features on the board:

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Dear Genessee's Mom,

I too have lost a baby through miscarridge aswell as losing my little boy Leo, nearly seven months ago.

The tragedy that we have suffered is heart wrenching and there really isn't a productive list on how to combat your suffering. My suggestion would be that you may find things get more comfortable with time. Time isn't a healer and the misery will never go away but you do learn stratergies that will enable you to cope with the loss of your beautiful baby. It wasn't your fault and I'm sure that your struggle will lessen. I had lost my other baby at 8 weeks and I have been told that it was because my body just couldn't cope - as it was only five months after losing my two year old Son. My body was suffering that much, I was exhausted, malnurished and depressed.

Try to take it easy and never utter the words again, that it was your fault x

Hello everyone I'm 24 years old my name is Toscha I was 20 weeks and 4 days pregnant with my daughter and on july 17, 2010 i had lost her. I was wondering if there is anyone out there that has lost a baby and could help me or give me advice of how to get through this. I struggle almost everyday and my mind wonders and makes me think it is my fault that i lost her. Please I am trying to find peace i know my daughter wouldn't want me to be miserable my whole life but it so hard. I never been through this before this is my first time and my first child....

Genessee's mom

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