Members Bataa Posted November 24, 2016 Members Report Share Posted November 24, 2016 Hello. I am hours away from losing my mother. I'm 24 and an only child of my mom. Only person who loves me truly is going to leave me in matter of hours. She had a gall duct surgery which was not life threatening but somehow complications occured. She's been battling for 3 months but now doctors tell us they have nothing they can do. And I blame myself for not convincing her to go to a better hospital for the surgery in September. I feel like it was entirely my fault and I don't think I would be able to function after her inevitable death. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sadaf Nazim Posted November 24, 2016 Members Report Share Posted November 24, 2016 No honey. It was not your fault. God has a predetermined time for everything. Specially death. It approaches neither a second earlier nor late. And we can't do anything about it. If we were able to we would trade our everything just to bring them back. But we can't. I pray to God that he gives you the strength and patience to face this situation. And unite you with your mother after this life. I pray that He unite all of us with our loved ones in the next life. Afterall this life is nothing but a test. The eternal life is what matters. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cindyjane Posted November 24, 2016 Members Report Share Posted November 24, 2016 Ditto on what Sadaf says ... prayers of comfort and strength your way Bataa. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bataa Posted November 24, 2016 Author Members Report Share Posted November 24, 2016 Hello. Lost my mom about an hour ago. I feel completely empty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members KMB Posted November 24, 2016 Members Report Share Posted November 24, 2016 So sorry for the loss of your mom, Bataa. She is with God now, in Heaven. A beautiful, peaceful place where she is no longer suffering. She'll be with you in spirit, watching over you. There's no avoiding the tough, painful time ahead for you. Remember, God loves you and He and your mom will be sending you their love and strength to help you on this new journey. Nothing is your fault, you did the best you could with her care at that time. God decided it was your mom's time to go to our true home. Prayers, love and hugs to you. All of us on this forum are here for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Bataa Posted November 25, 2016 Author Members Report Share Posted November 25, 2016 Thanj you everyone. I am a wreck right now. I still can't believe my mother is gone and I will never hear her voice again. Never thought life would get this hard this fast. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cindyjane Posted November 26, 2016 Members Report Share Posted November 26, 2016 Hugs Bataa .... you will feel numb for awhile. Even though you may have seen this coming, it is still a shock to our system. Hang in there and know that you are not alone. Take care and just go with the tears .... tears are healing. Cindy Jane Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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