Members BBB Posted December 1, 2021 Members Report Share Posted December 1, 2021 After about a year and a half now, no one wants to hear my tale of woe. No one wants to see me cry. Everyone is tired of me saying the same things over and over. I suppose it is just human nature but it becomes so frustrating because everyone, including family has "moved on" but you cannot. It actually makes things much more difficult for me and something that I was not prepared for. In the beginning, everyone is sympathetic, gives you their shoulder to cry on, listens to your hurt, anger, lamenting but after a period of time, most people want you to progress. They want you better because at the end of the day, there is nothing that you or they can do to change the fact that your soulmate is gone. This has been the hardest lesson to go through so far. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jemiga70 Posted December 5, 2021 Members Report Share Posted December 5, 2021 On 12/1/2021 at 10:52 PM, BBB said: most people want you to progress. Then that's THEIR problem. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Popular Post Gail 8588 Posted December 5, 2021 Members Popular Post Report Share Posted December 5, 2021 BBB, I agree. I think very few people have any significant outside support for their grief from friends or family after the first year. (I am sure a few may, but I think it is very uncommon.) For most of us, we have to walk this lonesome valley by ourselves in our day to day lives. I think that is one thing that makes this forum so remarkable. Here people do understand how we feel. We can vent and people here are sympathetic. Gail 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Popular Post ScotJ65 Posted December 6, 2021 Members Popular Post Report Share Posted December 6, 2021 On 12/1/2021 at 2:52 PM, BBB said: Everyone is tired of me saying the same things over and over. Hi BBB, when they 'tire' of you and support fades away, just remember that on here your friends will stand by you. Today. Tomorrow. Always. James. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Roxeanne Posted December 6, 2021 Members Report Share Posted December 6, 2021 On 12/1/2021 at 3:52 PM, BBB said: They want you better because at the end of the day, there is nothing that you or they can do to change the fact that your soulmate is gone. This has been the hardest lesson to go through so far. You're so right ...the hardest lesson in our life...! The lesson you don't want to learn... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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