Sometimes I can’t deal

[St James]

I need help, I lost my father in 2018 in December then my mom this year in June. I get no type of grief support from my Wife or no one in my house hold. They just live there life like nothing happened. The don’t even recognize my pain. The isolate and leave alone with my thoughts and feelings. Some days I just want leave  and never come back. I have no biological kids to carry on our name sake and it is hard to deal with the stress and my marriage. I jus don’t know what to do. 

[reader]

Dear St James,

I'm so sorry to hear how you are feeling. It is a lot deal with and we all need support, love and understanding during this sad and difficult time. Sadly, many of us have gone through the same thing. Many friends, family members and colleagues wants us to "get over it" and move on but that's not right. We need people to listen and ask us how we are. Please know there are many supports in the community and through church and online. These sites helped me a lot.

Grief in Common

Grief Healing Blog

What's Your Grief

Grief Recovery Method

Grief Share

You are not alone and there is support and help. Keep looking, my friend.