Members AndyDesertRat Posted July 6, 2021 Members Report Share Posted July 6, 2021 Hi everyone, First time here. Hoping for some thoughtful input from those who have either gone through a grieving process themselves, or supported someone they love through it. My partner lost her son tragically three months ago. While I know this is all very fresh and new and raw to her, I worry greatly about her. She stays up for days, sleeps and eats at completely different times every day/days, and has begun to use obsessive coping strategies. She binges Netflix and Hulu literally for days to distract herself, and has been using a lot more marijuana and alcohol to numb herself from the pain. She isn't working right now, so that sense of purpose and regimen is not present. I know that all of this may pass, but I am very worried that she is entering into a dangerous cycle or damaging habits that will soon be difficult to change. Can anyone relate to this, or have thoughts on our situation? Please and thank you, blessings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members reader Posted July 13, 2021 Members Report Share Posted July 13, 2021 Dear Andy, I'm sorry someone has not posted a reply sooner. I am so sorry for your partner's loss. It is a devastating time and you're so good to care for her. Has she considered grief counselling? Or joining a grief support group? Grief in Common has Zoom grief support meetings. I know it's hard to see someone go through such a difficult time. Everyone's grief journey is so different and we all do different things to get through each day. I hope talking to a grief therapist will help her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members AndyDesertRat Posted July 13, 2021 Author Members Report Share Posted July 13, 2021 Thanks so much for your response. Yes, I feel strongly that that is something that could help. But...Any mention or gentle suggestion of therapy or group meetings sets her into a rageful defensive attitude. She readily denounces any benefit from therapy and attacks those who mention it as questioning her mental stability. I think those around her during her upbringing were fairly anti counseling and "self sufficient". Uggg, what to do?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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