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Missy1

@SLSD I don’t know abuse the other side of grief. I can’t even imagine. I feel the pain and grief seem to become who I am now. I can’t shake it. They were and are part of who we are. I am so dreading 4th of July, I am glad that the world is shut down it will be a bit less painful knowing the world is not celebrating.

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ArtThebes
On 7/1/2020 at 8:01 AM, SLSD said:

I fear this question will sound rude or insensitive but please know that it comes from a place of love, compassion, and understanding: At this point in time, do you WANT to begin the journey of healing, of moving on to the other side of your grief and guilt?

i guess because i can honestly say "I do not know", that i have NO friends or family... i can accept it, but i cannot move beyond it. i don't see a light, nor a tunnel... just a long, neverending black expanse. and the light i once had, is deminishing day by day, so i cannot even see myself or where i am, in this unending darkness

51 minutes ago, Missy1 said:

I don’t know abuse the other side of grief. I can’t even imagine. I feel the pain and grief seem to become who I am now. I can’t shake it. They were and are part of who we are. I am so dreading 4th of July, I am glad that the world is shut down it will be a bit less painful knowing the world is not celebrating.

with it being father's day, my birthday and the 4th, all in two weeks... yeah, me too... make it all go away.

thank you for your offer to talk. you may message me anytime. i'll do my best to reply. 

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KayC
12 hours ago, ArtThebes said:

i can accept it, but i cannot move beyond it.

Well put.

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Missy1
20 hours ago, ArtThebes said:

with it being father's day, my birthday and the 4th, all in two weeks... yeah, me too... make it all go away.

 

It’s a lot of emotional days all crammed in together, I understand, for me it was  Father’s Day, his Birthday, 4th of July, my Birthday in 4 days. I also got a lay-off notice on his Birthday. Yesterday I finally connected and was able to move to new job in same company, I will stay employed, a blessing but stressful. I am wrung out, too much for someone grieving. 
Life is so cruel, there is feeling of not be part of this world, our hearts are with our angels we are stranded and stuck here.

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