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In Loving Memory Of Lady G.


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Well I might have but my daughter came up and told me her husband's Christmas present to her is he's filing for divorce.  He's still living with her although he left her nearly three years ago after her miscarriage.  She cried and talked about how she's shut down and can't talk about it and works all the time, he's hurt her so much these past few years.  I only want for peace and healing for her, alas the one thing I can't grant, that will be up to her to do.  :(

I am feeling blessed with little Kodie...at night I put him in the kennel and shut the door and nary a peep out of him all night!  He doesn't even cry when he wakes up in the morning, he waits for me to come get him.  Who gets a puppy like that!  :)

I hope you had a good Christmas or at least some peace.

 

 

 

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A year ago today, I got the awful news about my dear, Lady G. It's been a difficult year without her. And I still occasionally get upset, but things have improved a little. I still think of her every single day, and often. I will do so for the rest of my life. I will never forget this sweet, little girl. My best friend! Ever!

I love you dearly, Lady G.! 

 

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(((hugs))) Sending comfort your way and hoping for increasing peace.  I know we'll never forget them, they will be cherished forever in our hearts.

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14 hours ago, KayC said:

(((hugs))) Sending comfort your way and hoping for increasing peace.  I know we'll never forget them, they will be cherished forever in our hearts.

Thank you, Kay. I sure hope things are getting a little better for you as well. 

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2 years ago today, and Still missing her like crazy! That will never change, but I am not hurting nearly as bad any more. Finally! Time does heal our pain. It does get better! For those of you who are having an extremely difficult time right now, you've just got to hang in there. I know that's been said a lot, but it's worth repeating. It does get better!

I love you dearly, Lady G.! 

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And everyone please know that our healing does NOT detract from our live or missing them!  It's a thankfully naturally occurring process our bodies go through because we cannot maintain the level of pain we're in at the beginning!  It is so hard to go through, as we go through withdrawal and adjust to the absence of their daily interactions in our lives.  NEVER will I stop loving or missing Arlie not even one iota!   Do not think it amiss if we catch ourselves smiling at some point.  I've had so many hard losses in my life, the hardest by far were my sweet husband and my Arlie dog.  For some it might be a child, a parent, a sibling.  We can't compare losses but we can relate on the level of loss we have experienced.
http://www.aliveinmemory.org/2013/05/30/learning-how-to-smile-again/

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54 minutes ago, KayC said:

And everyone please know that our healing does NOT detract from our live or missing them!  It's a thankfully naturally occurring process our bodies go through because we cannot maintain the level of pain we're in at the beginning!  It is so hard to go through, as we go through withdrawal and adjust to the absence of their daily interactions in our lives.  NEVER will I stop loving or missing Arlie not even one iota!   Do not think it amiss if we catch ourselves smiling at some point.  I've had so many hard losses in my life, the hardest by far were my sweet husband and my Arlie dog.  For some it might be a child, a parent, a sibling.  We can't compare losses but we can relate on the level of loss we have experienced.
http://www.aliveinmemory.org/2013/05/30/learning-how-to-smile-again/

Well said, KayC! Thanks for posting that. And I hope you are doing well. 

Late April of last year, this little guy showed up around the house. I went outside to walk around for a bit of exercise, and I kept hearing something in the bushes. At first, I thought I was hearing things. Then, I thought to myself, is that a kitten meowing? I'd hear it as I walked away, but when I walked closer to inspect, it would hush. Finally, after several minutes, I saw it! 

Meet Kobe. My awesome little boy! First image is two days after I found him. Second image is a recent pic of him. My father named him. It's the first time I didn't name one of my cats. I think it fits him well. And yes, of course, he is a handful! And he is a pro at it!! :P

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OMG, how cute is that!!!  Such beautiful markings and such shiny fur, shows good health!  I am still waiting for the right kitten/cat to come along.  It's been a year since I've lost Kitty.  :(  Kind of waiting for Kodie to get past some of the puppy stage, but he was good with Kitty, she just wasn't with him, she was old and in pain.  :(  When the one comes along I will know...

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It's good to see your post @+Jeffrey+ I remember Lady G so well. She was such a beautiful cat. I'm glad you're doing well.

It is interesting how we learn over time that our hearts are indeed big enough to never ever let go of the one we lost... but still make room for another. It doesn't feel that way when it's broken.

So great you were able to save Kobe, sweet little guy. 

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