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Roxane Cotton

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Roxane Cotton

January 11,2017

i left state to meet my sisters to discuss if we should put my mom on hospice- my daughter calls my brother in law the same night to tell him my fiancé shot himself and my grandchildren were the first to find him.  I am so hurt and pissed that he did this to us and he knew my grandkids would becoming over.  The kids are 12 & 14.   The day before his funeral my mom died.  I knew he was having problems at work and we were having problems but In my wildest dreams he would be the last person I would ever expect to shoot himself.  I wish i knew how to grieve for him being pissed is something I can't move past. How do I  

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Dear Roxane,

My deepest condolences and sympathies on the loss of your mom and fiancé. I'm so sorry for your losses. My heart goes out to you. I hear you. Take your time to work through all the raw emotions. Its very hard to understand. I would be mad too. The pain of what happened is unbearable. I think it takes a long time to work through everything that happened. Be kind and gentle with yourself during this difficult time. And continue to surround yourself with loving friends and family. Please don't be afraid to reach out and connect with any community resources or through the church. All my thoughts and prayers are with you.

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