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Dee rite

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    November 21/18

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  1. Oh I am so happy for you and your family. This warms my heart to see Lily Ann and to know that she will have so much love to look forward to. No it doesn’t replace our loved ones who we hold dear but it creates healing in a different way. i am truly happy that you posted to help share in the joy after going through heartbreak. Dee
  2. Grasper was very loved and I am very sorry for your loss. this is a difficult time and wishing you strength during this difficult time and journey Dee
  3. Sending you strength during this time. Dee
  4. I am sorry for your loss. It is terribly hard to lose a member of your family. i understand the crying. It has been 4 months for me. The first 6 weeks were a blur for me but it softens a bit with time. there is no timetable for grieving and healing. Your love for her will never fade and all this is what makes loving our fur babies so hard when they leave us. I found chatting here incredibly helpful because you will be surrounded by care and kindness. Sending you a big hug and I hope your other baby is doing ok. My little boy continues to mourn for his sister and now needs attention all the time dee
  5. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Your beautiful girl will live in your heart forever. i know that right now the pain is absolutely the worst. My little girl passed away in November. I can tell you grieving is different for everyone. You need to take it minute by minute then hour by hour. I found visiting this site brought me therapy and the help I needed to get through the worst days of my life. I hope coming here helps you to heal. Sending you hugs. Dee
  6. Thank you Jim, for each of us one day at a time. One foot in front of the other. Dee
  7. Hi Jim, I don’t understand that either and feel they should not be that high. Christmas is very tough and I know how you feel. I did not take part in in any festivities at all and stayed home with just my husband and 2 fur babies. After Macey I just felt depressed and couldn’t bring myself to go to anything. I will go see my daughter on Saturday. stay strong and sending you a big hug. Dee
  8. Hi Nicola, Haiku is there with you in spirit. I know moving is stressful enough and your baby who brought you comfort , joy and unconditional love not being there must be extremely difficult. I hope that you are able to settle in and know we are all here for you. Hugs Dee
  9. Oh Karl, This makes it even more difficult. Pablo needs extra attention and love. You are very much in my thoughts and being sad is part of loving a baby so much. Losing a child is the hardest thing you will ever do. Stay strong and be kind to yourself Dee
  10. Dear Karl how is Pablo doing? My little boy is lonely and is now very attached to me Dee
  11. Deates jim I so sorry that you are on this emotional ride and understand that guiltily feeling. I had it to with Cheddar 17 years ago and to this day I still replay in my mind did I do the right thing. Macey made her own decision so we did not have to I decided not to decorate this year and my family is upset that I am not but I can't and it is all I can do to go to work Do what you can and take each day moment by moment. B kind to yourself because you provided Savannah much love and still do by remembering her. Heartache isn't easy. i am sending you an extra big hug today Dee
  12. Dear Njshore, First of all I am really sorry for this difficult time you and your family are going through. This is very hard decision and the emotional roller coaster is part of the grieving process. I too have been through this too. The depression is part of the renal failure and is more like lack of energy rather than true depression due to toxins and decreased red blood cells. This creates very low energy. Your little girl knows much love and you are being a truly kind parent to be able to give her peace. This is a special gift. wishing strength and sending you and your family love Hugs Dee
  13. I am sorry that you are having a difficult time but I can 100% can relate. Bi picked up Maceys ashes Tuesday and I was a mess and since bringing her home I have been teary and very depressed. i think we second guess because we love so deeply we want more time but know that out of pure love and care we do the hardest thing and that is to bring them Pearce and relief them from suffering. I know it is hard to think about and your mind probably keeps replaying this. Noodles had the best mom ever and such a good home. I really hope your other baby will be well soon. Wishing you strength and sending you much love. Please keep in touch to let me know how you are doing this next little while. Hugs Dee
  14. Hi Noodles mom Just touching base to see how you are doing and hoping all is ok Dee
  15. Jim, Glad to hear that things are a bit easier for you both. Today is so so but I am forced to put on a brace face since work is so busy even though when I feel moments of sadness. My daughter is home for a visit which gives me sunshine when I get home thank you and sending you well wishes Dee
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