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I have to say within the 25 years I have spent on this Earth I have probably seen more death then an average 25 yr old lady. However the loss of my uncle has really affected me the worse. My uncle killed himself and I found what was left of him. That's all I am saying about that.

The thing is my family, friends, and now doctors are saying I am too stressed out. The question is why can I not see that??? To me I am just another person dealing with a loss.

The proof of being to stressed out hit me hard when I landed in the ER on 9-10 and back again to the ER on 9-12...The second time was worse and I was kept in the ER till morning.

The Doctor that took care of me on the 10th said I am mentally and physically stressed. To take care of myself. Seek help counseling, go to my minister. I am going to a counselor on the 15th which is his birthday, and I also have God and Indigo.

The Doctor I seen yesterday said I can see the stress written all over your face, and it is making me physically sick.  My Question is; why can I not see it?

I feel like I am blind.

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I'm so sorry for the terrible things you have gone through!Maybe you are still in shock?Maybe you are just a really strong person?Councelling may not be such a bad idea,just someone to talk to and let your feelings come out.Stay strong-peace to you!!;)

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My heart goes out to you, for at such a young age you have had to deal with so much loss.  The loss of your uncle has probably brought back all the losses that happened before.  Just because you are unable to see what others tell you they see, you need to try to follow their advice and seek help whereever possible.  Do take care of yourself, and let yourself feel all the emotions that come with loss, because even tho we are told to "be strong" we can also let ourselves be weak and then lean on others until we are able to stand again.  Hope that makes some sense.  Do take care of YOU!

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