Members allie14 Posted July 20, 2009 Members Report Share Posted July 20, 2009 [align=center]My brother was 28. He jumped into a lake to save a little boy. I don't no how to cope with this. We were 14 years apart. He was suppost to be there for me. He died on June 29th of this year.[/align] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators Kelly Posted August 8, 2010 Administrators Report Share Posted August 8, 2010 Dear Members,We are excited to mention that we are moving to a more new and improved message boards on MONDAY MORNING AUGUST 9th! The boards will be done for a few hours while we are making the conversation. Remember we posted information about this move a month ago. For some of you this might seem a bit sudden, but when we were reviewing the site we determined the current message board you are using is out of date and the company that designed it is no longer in existence. The good news is this new message board will have new features that have been requested in the past like more fields we can add to your profiles and a chat room up to 20 people at one time. If we find the chat room is bursting at the seams we will add additional room for extra people. All your old posts, private messages and such will be migrated to the new message board. You might have to put up your profile picture again but not sure. The new company will be doing the migration for us. Here is a short list of some of the new features on the board:- Custom Profile Fields- Users can customize their profile pages by selecting a background color or background image, with tiling options.- Facebook and Twitter Integration- users can respond to multiple posts at once with "mini-quote"- Pinned discussion threads - like welcome to our board etc.- Announcements made across some boards or the entire message board- Search: Users can easily find all content generated by a particular member, by clicking the 'Find Content' button that appears on the main profile page, or in the Mini Profile Popup which can be accessed throughout the board. The results page allows content to be filtered by application, as well whether the member created it or merely participated in it. - Privacy: allows users to sign in anonymously, hiding them from the online users list. Users also have the option to disable personal conversations and user-to-user emails, as well as ignore other users if necessary.The next exciting piece of news about the new message board is it will have a new domain name of www.grieving.com for search engine optimization purposes. It will still be apart of Beyond Indigo and can be found through www.beyondindigo.com. We will be redirecting your current URL's to this new domain name but we might miss a few. If that is the case simply go back to www.grieving.com or www.beyondindigo.com to find your message board thread. We will try to make the transition as seamless as possible. The bottom line is the new board will give us room to grow our community and more options to interact better with each other. If you have any questions please direct them to feedback@beyondindigo.com. Kelly Baltzell, MACEO/PresidentBeyond Indigo Family Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Fleming Posted July 26, 2011 Members Report Share Posted July 26, 2011 [align=center]My brother was 28. He jumped into a lake to save a little boy. I don't no how to cope with this. We were 14 years apart. He was suppost to be there for me. He died on June 29th of this year.[/align]Your brother is a hero. I know that's not sufficient in making you feel better, but it is something that shouldn't be ignored. And I understand what you mean about how "he was supposed to be there" for you. After my brother, who was my mentor, passed away. The feeling felt so unreal... as if I was in some kind of nightmare. I kept thinking to myself that "this isn't supposed to happen to him. Not right now." In order to cope with this feeling, my best suggestion to you is to simply keep making him proud and live for him. Time doesn't exactly heal the wounds, but it makes you stronger by allowing you to handle the pain better.Warm regards,FlemingWarm Tribute Online Memorials Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members missingmompop Posted July 29, 2011 Members Report Share Posted July 29, 2011 [align=center]My brother was 28. He jumped into a lake to save a little boy. I don't no how to cope with this. We were 14 years apart. He was suppost to be there for me. He died on June 29th of this year.[/align]It's normal to have conflicting emotions.... but he did die in a heroic and selfless manor. The one thing that I have been told that has helped me is to feel each emotion fully and then let it go. So feel the anger, get it out, write it down or something, then try to let it go and focus on mourning your loss. My heart goes out to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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