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Lost my Mother and now sister is terminally ill


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Hi Everyone,

I lost my mother very suddenly in February. She was 82 but her condition deteriorated very quickly.  We were really close and I am the Baby Daughter. It broke my heart and I really struggled to cope.  Four weeks before she died my Sister who I'm also extremely close to was admitted to the hospital with spots on her liver.  She has continued to get worse and just last week was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer and was sent home by the Doctors. There is nothing they can do for her.   She seems to be getting worse every day and now it's just inevitable that she won't be with us much longer.   It just seems unbearable that I'm going to lose her too.   We're very close.   Her and my Mom are the two people in my family that I've been closest too.  My sister is tough and has always been my rock.   Some days I'm doing OK and some days I wake up and just can't believe this is happening.

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ModKonnie

I am so very sorry about the loss of your mom and the struggle your sister is having. Have you considered joining a support group in your local community? Do you have other family members or good friends? Please try to take care of yourself and spend as much time as you can with your sister. I'm sure she needs you, too. 

We will be here with you,

ModKonnie

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