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Impact of loss on surviving loved ones


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I am writing to ask for some insight on how to help, how best to support, when my significant other is grieving over the loss of her father. He passed three weeks ago, was sick for two years. Since his passing, and even before that, she seems to be lashing out at the people closest to her in so many ways. I want to do the best I can to help her through this, to minimize her stress, etc. But I have to admit that it can be so difficult to take so many 'attacks'. I understand why she is going through this, but I am getting to the end of my own rope. I love her so much and want to continue this relationship, and to be there for her. Any similar experiences or suggestions? At this point she is not receiving any counseling, and quite frankly I am afraid to bring it up to her...

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I would suggest she find a grief support group or a grief counselor or pastor. Stress like a death can either strengthen or tear a relationship apart. Couple counselling is another option. She has to work through her grief which could take a long time and it is work. Help her heal by suggesting walks,perhaps at the beach or mountains or other forms of exercise,eating well, getting lots of rest, focusing on nature, etc. She is still in a very early raw stage of grief. Hold her hand, hug her and listen to her. Just knowing you are there caring ,loving and supportive should help her a great deal.

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