Members awhiters Posted August 10, 2014 Members Report Share Posted August 10, 2014 My older brother was shot 7 times and murdered at the corner of my house at a bus-stop.On November 23rd he was killed for no reason. I miss him so much, I try to rememberthe good times which I do but sometimes I go from sad to angry about itI feel like I am on a whirlwind, I try to forget the tragic way that he was taken fromthis earth, but I cannot yet. I have never experienced anything so devastatingin my life and family. I feel unsafe for my own life sometimes,I feel that if someone shot him that the same will happen again.Some people that I talk to feel that I should be talking about something else and not my brothers.death. I ask why, he was a great guy. To this day, I cannot believe it, so sad Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ModKonnie Posted August 12, 2014 Members Report Share Posted August 12, 2014 Awhiters,I am so very sorry about the loss of your brother. How tragic that such a senseless act took such a precious life. Have they found the person(s) responsible. Do you have people to talk to, such as your parents or other siblings? Are you working or taking care of yourself?We will be here for you,ModKonnie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members awhiters Posted August 20, 2014 Author Members Report Share Posted August 20, 2014 Thanks Konnie, I appreciate it. No the person who did it has not been found as far as I know. Yes I have my parents or siblings to talk to. I live with my parents, i am not working yet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ModKonnie Posted August 22, 2014 Members Report Share Posted August 22, 2014 You are more than welcome. What do you do to fill your time? Are you in school? How are your parents doing? Do y'all talk about your brother and the feelings you are experiencing?I can see how you feel unsafe knowing this has happened so close to you. What is your neighborhood like? Has this happened before? ModKonnie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members awhiters Posted August 22, 2014 Author Members Report Share Posted August 22, 2014 You are more than welcome. What do you do to fill your time? Are you in school? How are your parents doing? Do y'all talk about your brother and the feelings you are experiencing?I can see how you feel unsafe knowing this has happened so close to you. What is your neighborhood like? Has this happened before?ModKonnie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members awhiters Posted August 22, 2014 Author Members Report Share Posted August 22, 2014 You are more than welcome. What do you do to fill your time? Are you in school? How are your parents doing? Do y'all talk about your brother and the feelings you are experiencing?I can see how you feel unsafe knowing this has happened so close to you. What is your neighborhood like? Has this happened before?ModKonnie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members awhiters Posted August 22, 2014 Author Members Report Share Posted August 22, 2014 You are more than welcome. What do you do to fill your time? Are you in school? How are your parents doing? Do y'all talk about your brother and the feelings you are experiencing?I can see how you feel unsafe knowing this has happened so close to you. What is your neighborhood like? Has this happened before?ModKonnie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members awhiters Posted August 22, 2014 Author Members Report Share Posted August 22, 2014 I am not in school yet but I plan to soon. My parents are alright, taking it one day at a time. We talk about my brother for a little while. My neighborhood is okay, I have just felt nervous with the violence that has occurred. I do leave the house, I am just cautious of where I go. I am not afraid that it would to anyone else in my family, I just know that it has happened to some others that I do not know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ACanterbu Posted August 28, 2014 Members Report Share Posted August 28, 2014 Thanks. Good information!My site ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hissister Posted September 5, 2014 Members Report Share Posted September 5, 2014 I will be thinking of you. May peace be with you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members awhiters Posted November 5, 2014 Author Members Report Share Posted November 5, 2014 hi konnie, how are u doing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Ravenstar Posted November 5, 2014 Members Report Share Posted November 5, 2014 You need to talk about it, at least until something settles/resolves within you - maybe forever, now and then. It's so much harder when one can't, as with my family. I hope there is more than one person you can talk to without receiving impatience back. (hug) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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