agree to allowing terminally ill to be taken out of care setting?

[shona marie]

hi,

i have a terminally ill grandma for whom ive taken out of her care setting yesterday at her request to be pushed in a wheelchair for a short period of time?,the amount of grief ive had of certain members of the family is unbelievable because im apparently stupid and selfish?who would agree i have done the wrong thing ?

[widower2]

There's far too little information here to know if what you've done is "right" or "wrong" and that's all very subjective anyway.....but seems to me that you're following her wishes, so I have no idea how that would be considered "selfish."  Do "certain members of your family" have any actual logical reasoning as to why this is so? 

[maggiemagpie]

my husband was terminally ill, I was his caregiver to the end, he was a docter he knew what he was doing when he chose me over anything else, he died beside me in bed knowing I had his back.  The only regret I have is letting hospice look after his meds for a week, they left him in extreme pain twice because they forgot!