Members borah315 Posted August 4, 2013 Members Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 My mother passed away from breast cancer Feb 28th of this year and my friend ( a guy that I dated off and on for 2 years) passed away July 21st. I thought I was beginning to cope a little better with losing my mother and when I found out my friend had passed away all the feelings that come with grief came back times 3. I find myself thinking about him more than my mother lately. I spoke with him the day before he passed but we were not on the best terms since 2 weeks after my mother died I had found out that he lied to me about so much and after his passing I learned of more lies. Sometimes I feel so angry with him but most of the time I just miss him like crazy. I wish my mom was here to get me through this and she cant. He was a Great man despite his imperfections, He was always here for me, my daughter and my mother when she was alive. I feel like I might find some peace in talking to his mom but I don't know where to begin. I only met his mother once and it was over a year ago. Although we were not dating he was someone I loved very much and was a very important to me. I just feel like I have no direction and I just want all the pain and sadness to go away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members dsmurph Posted August 4, 2013 Members Report Share Posted August 4, 2013 So sorry for your losses and your pain. You do what feels right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sidewindor Posted August 5, 2013 Author Members Report Share Posted August 5, 2013 The feelings that you have are perfectly normal and all part of a process of healing. I am sorry for the losses that you have suffered this year. I will keep you in my thoughts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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