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petrae   
I have a question.........I lost my dad on 12/30/04; I have been searching for answers, etc., on afterlife. I am getting comfort from site talking about NDEs and such, but I have a question: all these people that die and come back, never talk about their loved ones crying and sobbing; they never say, \"I saw my family mourning over me and it hurt me\" or something to that effect. If they do see us mourning, do they hurt over it? Are they sorrowful, or do they just float around until they come back? My dad smiled when he took his last breath (he was unconscious), and I wonder what he was smiling about. He waited until only his 3 children were with him to breath his last. Do these people see their grieving families when they are \"floating\" around and passing? And, do you think my dad saw Jesus when he smiled? We all screamed at the same time, \"Oh my God, he is smiling!\"

HELP PLEASE...I am in despair about these things.

Sorry for your loss...We lost our brother to homicide last March 2004. My brother also died with a smile on his face. I too have wondered what that can mean? THe circumstances to his murder are all unclear, we have been told the gunman had faught with him earlier and was seeking revenge. He shot my little brother as he tried to run away.

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My husband passed 1/28/2005. I went up to the cemetery to visit him because I am having a hard time making up my mind on the headstone (single or double). So I go up there and it is a windy day & I have 3 pinwheels there. I am just shooting the breeze talking to him & I say, Kevin some how in the next few days you need to show me a sign if you want a single or double headstone, you don't have to do it now but some how show me a sign. Two of the pinwheels STOP then they start going against the wind (2 times they do this). I took that as he wants a double. Before his funeral I felt him around me alot at the house but after never, What do you think? His sister is short and has the pull chains on her lights & 2 times she has walked by them and its like someone has pulled the chain, then she has a dream and he says call Debbi, "You just don't get it, do you" then something about the light. The weird thing is we both have key chains that say "you just don't get it." Then our son has a dream of Kevin calling his cell phone and he says he will be home soon. What does that mean?

Thanks

Debbi

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BIJulie   

Kevinswife,

I can't imagine what you are going through right now. I am not sure what to tell you about what all of this means. I am sure there are others on here that might have more experience. I just wanted to welcome you and let you know that if you give it a few days, you will hear from someone that can relate to you.

Take care,

Julie

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nqueen   

I lost my son, who was a firefighter several months ago. I take the dog out to a park, which is pretty secluded, and the dog & I just walk about, she\'s into digging,so I pretty much just stand around. The other day, I was talking to the heavens, asking John (my son) for some help here. We are having trouble getting the DA\'s interest, when off in the distance I see something bright red, shinning with the little sun there was. I went over to see what it was, and it was one of those home fire estinquishers. There are no homes anywhere around, and no reason for this to be out in the middle of a field. What do you think. An omen? I brought the thing home, and just stare at it. Like maybe he did put it there, just to tell me, keep on trying, keep on living. I\'m not as far away as you think I am.

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lauraa   

Whenever I close my eyes I can see a silouetter of my dad from a picture I have and also I see my husbands face....What do you all think about that?

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Hi everyone.

I might be able to make a small contribution. I have personal knowledge of the Other Side [through 3 NDEs and ongoing daily interactive contact with that other realm ...not on a psychic level but on a higher power level).

For Petrae [4.15.05] & Jeeenah [2.17.05]: I can't say for sure why your loved ones had smiles on their faces but I can say that it makes complete sense to me. The Other Side is so incredible beautiful and comforting, that you just can't help smiling. The love that surrounds you [it's like a visceral/full body love] is so peaceful ...it's like a homecoming. It's just hard not to smile. Coupled with the fact that you often get greeted by family members that have already crossed over or other people you are close to that are there ...The welcoming party ...it's hard not to smile when you see people that you haven't seen for a very long time. It's moving. It's peaceful.

Jeeenah: They DO care about how you are feeling. The smile is just a moment ..just a moment of feeling. They can see their grieving families ..yes. And they do care.

For Nqueen: the extinguisher was a sign from your son. His way of saying hello. He must have gone through a lot of stunts to get that one to cross your path! That's great!

For Laura: The silhouette of your dad and your husband's face when you close your eyes are signs from them that they are with you and with eachother. They are trying to let you know that.

For Kevinswife: Kevin is trying to contact you. He is being very explicit. The double pinwheels mean double headstone ..yes. He is very specific. Was he a detail man in his physical body? The dreams ..He is trying to get a message across that he is with all of you ...He is being quite diligent about getting that message across because he is making attempts via different people in the family. The cell phone dream was the clearest so far ...He says that he will be home soon. Yes. Home is with all of you. Home is also where he is now. He can be in both places at once [long story!]. With your sister and the lights turning on ...He is both trying to get her attention AND the "light" is symbolic of where he is ...Then she has a dream the same night about "You just don't get it Debbi" ...[meaning possibly ..'you don't get that I'm alive and right here!']. It's our doubts that cloud the messages. He's really trying : )

Hope this sheds some light on things a little for everyone or, at the very least, provides some food for thought.

They are with you. It just feels like they aren't. If we only had the technology to see them right now with ease. Can you imagine? Then you could see them. Minus the physical body, but you could still see them. It WILL happen. You can't see electricity but it exists. 500 years ago, a telephone was unheard of, let alone a cell phone. There is much we don't know and understand yet but time and technology will change that. In the future, we will have clear contact with the other realms.

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lauraa   

Dear Seekingsolace,

Thanks for your comments. That really helps me. If you don't mind my asking how do you connect on a daily basis to contact those in the other realm. I think it is a process and learning process. Yesterday I had my eyes closed half sleeping and i was in my back yard by my garden and off to the left my husband was walking toward me with a big smile on his face and brighter than the sun. I'm am looking to make this connection more often...any suggestions?

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Hi Laura.

Your husband's hello to you sounds wonderful : ) That big smile on his face was just beaming.

Whatever you are doing keep doing it. You are doing something right because he is already coming to you. First, do you notice any patterns in terms of your own emotional state or body state just prior to his visits with you? Pain is noisy and it often makes clear communication difficult for them. So they often come at moments of more stillness.

Practice will make a difference in this respect as well as intention. If you tell him clearly that you would like him to come to you daily, for example, then there is a greater chance that he will. If he knows your intentions clearly, he can respond to this. It's like telling a person you will be home to receive them at 8p. Then they arrive at 8p. If you don't pre-arrange that then they may knock but you're not home or ready to receive their visit.

Also, the Other Side has a "wavelength" [sorry to sound New Age but I couldn't come up with a better word]. When you "tune in" to this wavelength, you can often pick up on signs you might otherwise miss. The wavelength is like a channel on a walkie-talkie. If he can only communicate with you on a channel 7, then you need to turn the walkie to that frequency/channel. The Other Side wavelength/frequency is more meditative/still than our regular waking state. That's often why they come to us in dreams.

As for me ...you had asked about how I communicate daily with the other realm. This is the first time I have attempted to explain this so please bear with me as I stumble along ...

Since birth, I seem to have a direct "phone line" wired to a Higher Power [whatever you might call that ...God for some people, etc] and its "associates"/helpers. My "phone" is rather unusual in that I can hear, see and feel the emotions of my caller and also see and feel the place where they are calling from. It's a funky phone.

So I seem to be a Messenger-Interpreter of sorts. I get information from the Other Side and then I relay it in a form that people can understand. I haven't done anything myself to cultivate this ability ...It was just given to me. It's the way I've been wired.

I am not a psychic. If you were to imagine the Other Side as a 100 floor building, I am getting messages from the top 5-10 floors. Psychics speak with people on the other floors. If a person visits the upper floors for a while, then I can speak with them there but that's really not my area. Interpretation is my speciality it seems.

If you think I'm crazy, I won't hold it against you! It probably sounds very odd, or unbelievable. I have struggled with it for years. I've tried "turning it off", etc to no avail. Yup. It's a part of me. I have been trained in medicine so my scientific mind was really grappling with my experiences. I even submitted myself to study in several places to ensure it was authentic. So ..after much of a long haul I have finally come to a place of more acceptance. So here I am.

I have always known that this unique ability of mine is not for me alone ..It is for others. I have been given so much information about the Other Side I don't even know where to begin. So ..in a nutshell ..I'm here to help.

What I can do is: 1) help people learn how to receive signs, 2) help them how to interpret them, 3) help people feel what I feel from that realm. I am not doing this in a formalized way yet. I've helped plenty of people informally.

I hope this helps you a little bit : )

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lauraa   

Seekingsolace,

Sorry I haven't responded to you but my internet was down. Thank you for responding to me. Everything you say I totally believe. I think we all have an intuitive side and this ability we just aren't tuned into how it works. When my husband does come to me and I receive him it is when I am in stillness....I do think that when we are deeply grieving it is difficult for them to come thru but yes, he gets me when I least expect it. I do ask him to come see me and to send me messages. It's very difficult to get use to this because I know he is with me but I just can't see him. I do get comfort to know my dad and husband are together. Please tell me they are healthy and not sick anymore (that is how my husband has come thru to me). When you say you can talk and see people on the top 5-10th floors of a building do you mean a psychic goes to a higher dimension? Like heaven? With god? This entire subject is the thing that has saved me thru my devastation of loosing my parents and husband a year ago. Did science deem you authentic and how do you incorporate this with you medical background? I am reading as much as I can and it gives me great comfort. My dad appeared to his sister shortly after he "passed" but he hasn't come thru to me yet not even in a dream...we were close so I'm waiting.....Keep in touch and feel free to email me anytime.

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Seekingsolace...I have found this board because I lost my dad,may 30/05.I have had quite a few ADC's,including a sparrow,warmth to my back,phones ringing,etc.Although these things are trickling through,as I get my head around his passing,I am stuck on an initial 'needing' to know if his passing was without discord,and that where he is now[spiritual level] is also without angst/restlessness.Like,lauraa,these things spiritual are the things that are getting me through the transition on this side.Knowing that our loved ones are around helps ease the pain.I have a lot of fine tuning to do. I know you say that you are not psychic,but any insights you have will be gratefully appreciated.

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Reading my first post,I've realized that it doesn't sound like I'm including everyone in the community ..my apologies.Please,I am new @ this,bear with me.Thanks for understanding.

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lauraa   

Sunflowers,

I know what you mean....I need to fine tune things myself. I think when we begin to settle down (usually from exhaustion) is when when are more able to connect with our love ones. My dad passed away 6 months before my husband passed and then my mom 3 weeks after that. Needless to say my head was spinning. I was so grief stricken over the loss of my husband I have never had a chance to grieve my parents yet. My husband came to me in a dream shortly after he passed...He was standing with my in the dream at his funeral and we were looking at his casket together and he said, "I am not there". Now, how powerful is that for a message? Then about 4 months after he passed I sat on the edge of our bed and looked casually looked out the window and his face appeared in the screen briefly and he has come thru to many many times in readings with mediums and there is no way they knew me or anything about me and were all extremely accurate and knew things that they couldn't possibly know. I had another experience when I visited his grave for the first time when I was alone and it was extremely powerful. There are just so many things that tell me he is with me and lives on and is healthy and happy. Read books on the afterlife...they really help....I am sorry for your loss and I know how difficult it is to grieve for the one's we love so much. Remember, they are with us and cheering us on to feel better. Onething I have read is that time is so different for them. When we are reunited with them it will only feel like a second to them where with us it will feel like an eternity. I think this pain we have to go thru here on earth is like what Jesus had to experience in order to know the blissfullness, love, peace, beauty of the otherside. If we didn't know this deep pain and sorrow then maybe when we do meet up with them we may never have known how totally magnificent it will be.....Just some of my thoughts and I hope they help.....Stay with us here...we all know what you are going thru and we all lift each other...God bless.

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swede1   

To Everyone Here,

Where to begin? I've lost my beloved fur-kidlet (cat) 5 yrs. ago, my Mother in Jan./04 then my oldest brother 2 months later in Feb./04. I've had the most ADC's from my furboy - not surprising to me since we loved each other the most/best out of all those relationships...and because even here on earth, he was quite the guy when it came to telepathic and energetic connection with me. Only one or two days after his (traumatic) departure, I clearly felt him 'tromping' my hair and nuzzling my ear mere seconds AFTER I awoke. It wasn't his sister, either, as I first suspected (though she'd never done this ritual with me, but I thought she might pick up some of HIS habits after he was gone, as I've heard can happen); she was on my legs, far from my head. For the next 2-3 wks. she and I both kept hearing the thump upstairs of him jumping down from his 2 favourite napping places...and we'd both get goose-necked, craning to look up the stairs, half expecting to see him coming down to join us on the couch. (then we'd both feel really awful when we saw nothing, of course) Also during that time we both had another auditory experience when we heard the distinct sound of carpet-clawing coming from inside the closet where he used to lay in their carrier, so loudly that his sister insisted I open the closet door. I think we were both surprised again when we weren’t able to see him in there. He has also sent me at least one very clear “Hi, Mom” via a very obscure, but very personal-to-us song on the radio, just minutes after I asked him to be with me one Boxing Day. I also had heard his ‘voice’ in my head, giving me the odd piece of advice…a ‘voice’ not only out of the blue when I was lost in my own thoughts, but that actually startled me with its feeling of ‘otherness’, telling me things I don’t normally think/aren’t my style. His funeral service was also filled with symbols and messages, suggesting he was watching as we mourned, the messages all being about rebirth and eternity.

After my Mom’s death, the first message I seemed to get was a song on the radio all about mothers and how we can’t replace them, heard while sorting through what little of her clothes I was allowed to have. In my dreams, she was most often only hanging around in the background, somehow giving me the go-ahead to sort through and take what I wanted from her things ( an issue for me since they were all sold to strangers w/o my family telling me or saving anything for me ) , but not usually talking to me. I often had the weird feeling that I KNEW she was dead and yet was still there somehow. Even so, the feeling of missing her and wanting to be able to touch her again was extreme. I usually got the feeling that she was IN CONTROL now of family matters, which helped because the rest of them had done so much harm to me and her. I had many of these types, then nothing for awhile, then one different one about a month ago. In that one, we were in her car, she was driving (she hadn’t been able to any more for many years previous), it was winter out and we were about to cross a bridge that looked icy and unfamiliar to me. I worried for a second about her abilities, but then just knew that it would be fine. We were stopped, I looked over at her and was about to tell her I had reassessed things and now felt so extremely grateful to her for all she had done for me (and others) all her long, arduous life. She smiled at me before I spoke a word, and sent the thought telepathically, “I KNOW….” I then knew she had heard my heart’s thoughts and that she did indeed know exactly how I felt about her….and I KNEW she also felt as grateful to me for feeling this way. I have had no dreams about her since, but it does seem as if a shift has taken place in at least that area and I don’t have to worry anymore about wondering if she knows my heart.

As for my brother, he’s also been in most of my dreams about reclaiming our Mother’s things, but in this incredibly-supportive role, in many cases more dominantly featured than my Mom. One dream, much like the others, was different, though, as I CLEARLY felt such strong and steady support from him, as if he’d also been handling things from beyond on my behalf. This has been a truly wonderous thing for me, as I never got this kind of feeling, or action, from him in life. Not that he didn’t do the odd thing for me, but certainly not to this extent or intensity. He was mainly a distant, intellectual person in style. Nothing could have been so surprising and UNexpected a thing to me to associate with him and our relationship as siblings.

The strange thing though is that you might think I’d be doing wonderfully after being blessed by such experiences from beyond, but you’d be wrong. While I would have been MUCH worse off without them (probably going totally mental!), I still seem to want more PROOF of continuing life, more answers to what exactly happens when we die and whether being greeted by our loved/missed ones is guaranteed. What if they reincarnate before we die…do we miss out on seeing them and then have to wait for who-knows-how-long? Some say they are still working on their earthly issues there; others say they’re beyond that. And on, and on go the questions in my head. But the most bothersome one for me is this: if that’s really our Home, and this isn’t, why are we here in the first place, a place full of suffering, likely only from our own ignorance of what we really are. And why in the world don’t we remember where we came from, if we do indeed return here time and again? Do we LIKE to see ourselves suffer, from lack of knowledge? And no, I can’t believe a Higher Power imposed this upon us as some sort of punishment, because that more than strongly suggests an UNloving Power who also enjoys seeing us suffer. I also can’t see that we did this to ourselves to learn, because I seem to have suffered emotionally far too much than I could ever imagine I would have agreed to…unless I’m really insane! These questions haunt me every day. If ANYONE out there has even an inkling of what the answers are, PLEASE share it with all of us!!

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Lauraa..thank-you for sharing.I really do understand that there is eternity,a process of life,which includes death.That being said,it's that the head and heart are not on the same wavelength.I am sooo very glad he doesn't have to endure any more pain/discomfort..that he is made whole again in the presence of God,however,the emotional,'i miss him' sometimes clouds what I know to be true.We all return to God,that which made us in the first place.That our bodies are just that;it;s our spirit and soul which live on.Easy enough to say,harder to live.Yes,Jesus died for us,and my pain is but a fraction of what He endured for ALL MANKIND.Thanking my dad for teaching me,and leading me in the right direction of life...GOD!

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lauraa   

Swede1 and Sunflowers,

You guys have written alot of how I feel. All the questions...I guess that's why we call it "faith". I think there is "a knowing". I just hope that we will all be reunited with our love ones when it is our time. And, that we will all find peace in the interim. I wish we had concrete proof that they are there..... like seekingsolace said, someday there will be proof and technology to let us all know. I hope! I wish the grieving wasn't so difficult and there was a magic bullet to take our pain away....not so lucky! It's been 13 months for me and I still feel numb in alot of ways. Just getting use to the fact that my husband will never walk in the door again has taken a year to accept...not I'm faced with all the rest of the emotions that comes along with my loss. I do believe he is with me but I just can't see him. He is in my dreams, thoughts, etc....

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Hi Everyone.

I'm sorry for the delay in reply. I've replied to each of you individually below. I must apologize in advance for what I know will probably end up being a lengthy discourse. I haven't sorted out how to answer questions yet in a more succinct way because I have so much information that I could share [even today's entry is just tip of the iceberg stuff]. Know that there IS a solid way for all of you to receive and interpret communication from your people [and to really understand questions of God, purpose, etc] ...I just need page time to get to all of it out with a high degree of specificity. But I think BI will kick me out if I did that! So, aside from these postings, I'm going to work on something more concrete/tangible around this ...something that all of you will be able to do if you so choose [it's about that "fine tuning" you have been mentioning]. Once I have this together, I will let you know. [alternatively anyone is welcome to e me at illuminatumm@hotmail.com].

For Laura: What I often find is that people feel that their relative [ie. your dad in your case] has not been in touch but usually they have been but the signs have been missed [maybe because they were too subtle]. For instance, the silhouette of your dad that you have been seeing IS communication from him. If you would like additional communication from your dad: ask him directly and CLEARLY to visit. An unspoken intention of wishing to see him is usually not enough ...something more direct like "Dad [while visualizing his face in your mind or having an object of his in your hand or a picture of him there with you as you speak], I would like you to come and visit me in whatever way that you can". And specify a time-frame. "Please do so today or within the next 3 days". If you have already done all of this and your father still hasn't been more in touch, other possibilities need to be explored. Feel free to outline to me exactly what you have tried to make a connection with him and we can sort that out more. As we touched on previously, pain is another possible deterrant to communication. Pain is like the "phone line" being used ...When your husband or father tries to call, chances are that they are getting a busy signal.

For Sunflowers: The Other Side is such a peaceful place that, once a person has crossed, angst/restlessness is just not possible. The time of passing is very similar ...The person's soul/spirit leaves their body BEFORE the body dies [if the death is violent/traumatic ...at the time of trauma, the soul detaches from the body ...The same thing happens for people still alive after a trauma but then it's called "dissociation" ..it's a milder form of the same thing]. This saves them the physical/emotional pain that could be felt if they were otherwise present. Even if your dad's body had been alive for a while after the incident, his spirit would have detached to ease him. But, don't take my word for it, check it out yourself ...Why don't you ask your dad directly about it? He has been very actively communicating with you. Just tell him that you would like to ask him some questions, ask him to give you a "yes" sign and then a "no" sign and then start asking 1 question at a time and wait for the answers. Some people in spirit are good at working with light manipulation, others with electricity, others with visual, etc. Ask him first what medium he would like to use to give you the Y/N and then wait. Might I suggest the warmth to your back? That might be easiest [ie. Y = warmth, N = no warmth]. Just some food for thought. All of this is really just about trying things until a communication method works and is dependable and interactive.

For Swede1: Good questions ...I will answer one of them for now [because otherwise I will take up too many BI pages]: ...You will see your people again. The soul is not limited by linear time/space. It can be in multiple places at the same time [sort of like how you can send an email to many people at the same time in a split second ...energy has properties like that]. Mind-blowing I know and only a physicist could explain in detail that one away for us [they are working on that kind of stuff currently re other dimensions, etc]. So ...yes ...you will see them. Hold me to that! As for the other questions, the answers are very "non-linear" things that I need to translate into a more linear/tangible construct.. I have decided to start working on something that will answer questions such as these for people. I will let you know once I have that more under way.

To answer Laura's questions about me vs psychics:

It was a process of outside help and study that assisted me to be able to even write about my "wiring" publicly now. One of the people that studied me was an MD from a well-respected university. She labelled me a "mystic" but it's such a misused word in society that I've decided not to use it. I haven't sorted out what to call myself yet. Still working on that. Any ideas from anyone? I've also been to see priests and other spiritual professionals to get myself investigated. Like I said before, I have a strong scientific bent myself ...I've studied medicine, neuroscience and other related disciplines. And yes, [to my chagrin], I was deemed authentic. 1/2 of me was hoping that I would be told something else ...then I could just be let off the hook and be a regular person. It's strange being this way. It's a good strange but it's still strange : ) !

I'm not an expert on psychics so I will leave it up to them to comment on their unique abilities. My understanding though is that they are communicating with realms different than the ones that I am hearing from. There is really no way to put this without sounding surreal/flaky/unbelievable [so please feel free to doubt away because I probably would if it wasn't happening directly to me] but I am in direct interactive communication with a Higher Power [aka God/God energy ...I am careful not to say "God" because the label is often perceived in a religious context ...something that everyone has a different angle on. Although quite helpful for many people, religion is a human construct ...a way to interpret God stuff ...and religion can get segmented ...but God himself is for everyone no matter what their religion or what we call that Higher Power].

It is from this place that I receive answers to questions [from the Big Kahuna : ) ]. I am simply a Messenger-Interpreter. It is not my place to get information about people on the Other Side but rather to teach people how to do it themselves, interpret what is coming to them and ultimately have trust in that and themselves. It is about helping you to feel more empowered again and connected to those that you love and to help you realize that they are with you ...right now. Nothing has changed except for the physical. I also can answer questions for people about Higher Power related items. But you need to know that it is not I that am the expert ...I am simply a relay of information and here to teach people how to get information themselves [ie. have direct connections]

Apologies again for my [very!] lengthy discourse. BI is my first discussion group encounter. Thank-you for your patience.

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lauraa   

Seekingsolace,

Thanks for your post and all your thoughts. Yes, I am interested in any and all suggestions especially everything you mentioned in your last paragraph. Guess I need to rely more on the "Big Kahuna"...And, I want to know securely that my loved ones do live on and are o.k. until we meet again. That is really what has helped me to get along in my grieving this year. I am sure things haven't been easy for you with this knowing and ability you have....thank goodness you have validation that it is real. I talk to my husband to come and see me and he does come thru to me...usually when I least expect it...my dad has not, not yet but I am waiting. I think my energy has been dense and it is difficult for him to connect with me but in the beginning when he "passed" the locks in my car kept going up and down on their own and I would tell my kids it was grandpa and he was with us. When my husbands grandma "passed" our phone at home would ring alot and no-one was on the other end and I told the kids it was granny. I want to expand on these things and "see" them...do you think that is possible? I know it is because all those people in the book, Hello From Heaven couldn't all have made up their stories. And like I said before my aunt saw my dad after he "passed" when he showed up at her house for a brief period and she is "not" nuts. Probally the most sincere person I have ever met.....I have my husband come thru when I ask him and when I am the most relaxed so I guess practice will make perfect with all others to do the same. I'll bet this gift you have comes in handy with the work you do. Any suggestions will be appreciated and thank you for you help.

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lauraa..how are you?I am plugging away @ getting back to the things that need tending to,as well as inter-mingling the spiritual..ADC..It truly is a balancing act,as I don't feel I can completely submerge myself,and forget I have a husband as well as 2 small children to raise.My dad use to say'Go home,take care of your family,I'm fine!'So,as I continue to open up my heart and mind for this continual link to him to develop,I also will honor him by stepping up to the plate,as I know he did when his parents died,and take care of those things which are important...each other.One thing I just remembered,my clocks and my mothers clocks are all going haywire in the last 2 days.Anyone else have this experience?Thanks and take care.

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lauraa   

Sunflowers,

I know what you mean. This grieving is rough and tough business. You know in the beginning when I lost my husband I thought how the heck am I going to raise these kids???? Now, I am so thankful I have them as they are all 3 the reasons that got me out of bed everyday. After I lost my dad I thought the same thing you did. That when he lost his parents when he was a young parent himself he had to carry on and so that is what they would want us to do. And I was young enough to not know his grief, although I can remember him lying in his bed in total saddness for the loss of his mother. I know my husband if the table was turned would feel like I do now. We were soul mates and I am completely lost without him and I'm trying to find my way....I continue to work on a daily basis not to fall into a profound depression and knowing that he lives on has made the world of difference for me. I wish you luck in your journey and I am sorry for your loss. Keep posting as it helps tremendously.

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To Anyone:

Here's a question I'd LOVE an answer to! I've heard it said that a.) you meet your loved ones later, but NOT in physical form, in energetic ways instead, OR b.) you DO meet your loved ones in SOME kind of physical form, at least visually (which begs the OTHER question, if vision is based in the physical, how could it NOT be some form of physical meeting?), because they usually appear as younger, in fine 'form', and you can hug them, etc. It REALLY bothers me that there's more than one version of the supposed 'Truth' out there and also that I really can't imagine anything even BEING Heaven, or whatever you want to call it, WITHOUT the joys of touch. For example, to meet my furboy, without being able to once again stroke his so sleek-and-shiny-velvety fur would NOT be my idea of a heavenly place/encounter! Does anyone have either any answers about this kind of thing, or share my discomfiture and puzzlement about these reunions? And thanks for all the replies to my previous postings to date! I really NEED this forum!!

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Hi everyone.

I hope this day is being kind to you. I'm going to try to answer some of the questions posted here in the last 2 days. [For anyone who sent me an email ... If I haven't replied to you yet, I will do so shortly.] Please bear in mind that everything I ever mention is just my perception based upon my own experiences with the Other Side. My perceptions are my own and are not necessarily yours or anyone else's. The key ultimately is to have your own one-to-one experiences around all of this and see what feels true for you. It's really about self-trust. We can each look at an apple differently. I certainly believe that it's the same when you are experiencing the Other Side, God energy, or anything else. Just as we are wired with 5 senses for experiencing the earth, we are also wired with the ability to send and receive information in other ways.

For Laura: I have a feeling that your Dad HAS been in touch but perhaps, because your focus is more on your husband, you might be missing the signs from your dad. Your dad certainly was very active with the locks on the car after he first crossed. I myself have had quite a few dramatic encounters and more subtle encounters with people saying hello ...from appliances and cars going on and off, to knocking windows, to full visual hellos, auditory, etc ... The Other Side is telepathic. So, once people have crossed, to communicate with us here on the earth, since we earth people are not using our telepathic abilities, they only have more non-verbal methods of communication to get our attention. It's sort of like charades ...Do you know that game? A person has to essentially pantomime a sentence to people [completely non verbal] and others have to guess what that person is trying to communicate. That is often what it's like for people on the Other Side ...They need to be quite creative in how they get their communication across ...whether it's with sound, lights, electronics, images, telepathy, dreams, etc. And this communication depends on both their skill at it from there and your ability to receive it [sort of like an antenna that you have].

I do think that you will be able to "see" them at some point. I just think that you need to develop your antenna a bit more [with practice]. I'm working on something to help with this. I will let you know once that's ready.

Pain [ie. the energy density you mentioned] can mess up the signal of the antenna. [that's why you are able to receive your husband when you are more relaxed ...He is around even when you think there is no sign ...you are probably just not noticing them at that point ...It's like any sort of communication ...2-way ..It depends on both of you].

For Swede1: From what I have seen of the Other Side, when you pass into non-physical form, meeting your people on the Other Side will feel physical to you . You will actually FEEL more. I know this sounds odd but let me try to explain. You will be able to feel their emotions, hear and feel their thoughts, and feel what feels like their bodies. It's the stuff of telepathy. It's telepathic there. You will be able to stroke your cat ...YES.

You will SEE visual as well. They greet you that way because it's familiar to you. It's a way for you to identify your people immediately and feel comforted. They tend to appear to you [initially at least] at an age that you were familiar with while their body was alive on the earth.

So, rest assured, from what I have seen of reunions, it will be very comforting and tangible : )

Some food for thought for today : )

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swede1   

Dear Seekingsolace,

Thank you SO much for your wonderful help here (and for your email)I cried for joy when you assured me I'd be able to FEEL my furboy, see everyone I love. I actually KNOW what you mean by feeling their thoughts, etc. My furboy actually already showed me this when he was here. I used to just KNOW/FEEL what he wanted to do often, especially when we were playing up a storm and being kooky together. We were always so IN SYNC with each other that way. We also used to spoon, and when we did, I would get totally immersed, in wonder and awe, at the way he could instantly make me so peaceful...because it felt like our SOULS were merging! I had some communications done with him (before and after death)and the communicator phrased it perfectly when she told me he was showing her how it felt when our auras MERGED into each others when spooning. (no, I hadn't said anything about this to her) I used to tell him it would be wonderful when we were both in 'Heaven' and we could absolutely BE each other if we wanted...total and complete UNION. So it helps me greatly to hear this type of thing verified, at least from someone else's perspective, too.

Also, I recently tried one of your tips to create a visit, and you know, it seems to have worked! I asked my furboy to visit me, and within 2 days, I SWEAR I heard his paws jumping onto the kitchen counter when I was quietly sitting with his siter mere feet away. Then the next day, someone sent me some pictures, one of two particular cats, which spoke to me personally about how I've thought of my guy in his 'new' digs. I can't WAIT til you can come up with MORE for everyone who is so thirsty for returning to our natural talents! Just THINK....no more suffering the way we've known it!!! THANK YOU for your personal mission and dedication to your calling!!!

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lauraa   

Seekingsolace,

Thanks for your thoughts. I agree that my dad is trying to come thru to me and probally have been missing the signs because I am grieving so deeply for my husband. Even today I was doing a relaxation tape to help with making these contacts and I was trying to have my dad come thru but I felt my husbands presence so strongly. I know they are both together and that gives me great comfort but doesn't take my saddness away completely. I know when my energy is dense with grieving it is more difficult for them to come to me. I am working on that. I am also looking forward to any and all suggestions you might have to share to help us along the way... Thanks!

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