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nor-cal6/18/55-6/25/12

First Mothers Day Without My Mom

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We lost my mom last year on June 25th at the age of 57. My mother and I have been very close throughout my entire life. I have always loved getting something special and/or doing something special for my mom on mothers day. This year will be the first mothers day without my mom and I'm not looking forward to it because I know it will be a sad day. I would like to do something for my mom for mothers day even though she is not here any longer but I'm not sure what. She was cremated and my dad has her ashes until he passes and I will mix them together and spread them then. Hopefully that will be years down the road. So we have no grave or memorial, place to bring flowers or go to spiritually be with my mom in that way. Which is a bummer IMO. Im thinking I would like to make some kind of memorial for my mother on my parents property. Somewhere that could act as a grave and spiritual place for now. I'm just not sure what or how to go about it. I would love to hear ideas from you all. Thanks.

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That is such a wonderful idea. I think it would be pretty to plant a flowerbed and put a bench by it, or a tree, maybe aplace where you and you dad could sit and talk about beautiful memories.

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That is such a wonderful idea. I think it would be pretty to plant a flowerbed and put a bench by it, or a tree, maybe aplace where you and you dad could sit and talk about beautiful memories.

Thank you for the idea! That is a great suggestion.

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Just stopping by to say How sorry I am that you have Lost your Mother. That's one of those days I'm not looking forward to Myself! Jus Lost my Mama last week! I hope you were able to make a nice peaceful spot for you & your Dad. Not sure what I'll do? Maybe take the Night off from Work & maybe go Fishing? She knew I loved it & would be Happy I was out there. Hang in there & know we're here for you...

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