Members SyrCsKsgirlyboi Posted April 12, 2011 Members Report Share Posted April 12, 2011 I lost my Dad on Saturday April 9th. Tomorrow night is the funeral and I'm not coping well. My dad and I had a rocky relationship for years. Wasnt until 4 years ago that we came to terms with things and made amends. Dad had been sick for that time and suffered alot. I know all the cliche things about he's in a better place. And I know he's not suffering. But I'm going back and forth with crying and being mad as h**l at him for dying. And I'm feeling really guilty because he and I didnt speak for 25 years because he was a drunk. I'm not sure how I'm suppose to feel right now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ModKonnie Posted April 13, 2011 Members Report Share Posted April 13, 2011 I lost my Dad on Saturday April 9th. Tomorrow night is the funeral and I'm not coping well. My dad and I had a rocky relationship for years. Wasnt until 4 years ago that we came to terms with things and made amends. Dad had been sick for that time and suffered alot. I know all the cliche things about he's in a better place. And I know he's not suffering. But I'm going back and forth with crying and being mad as h**l at him for dying. And I'm feeling really guilty because he and I didnt speak for 25 years because he was a drunk. I'm not sure how I'm suppose to feel right now.I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your father. Of course you aren't coping well, and feeling guilty, angry, heartbroken is all perfectly normal. I am glad you made amends with him while you could. We all wish we could go back and change things, but we can't. For now, just grieve and miss him. I wish you well at the funeral. Come tell us all about him when you can.ModKonnie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hawaiianwolverine Posted April 26, 2011 Members Report Share Posted April 26, 2011 SyrCsk,So sorry about your father... Your situation sounds VERY CLOSE to what I am going through.. Iam grievig oo, but i is all SO HARD to deal wth... My older sister an I had a HUGE fight last night on the phon and I swear EVERYONE could hear it.. I am in Texas and grew up in Michigan where I'm from, where my dad lived.. My mom passed away almost 20 years ago, on New Years Eve, and I thought th word ended.. Please know you are not alone. Im having trouble typing on this site, like I do on Facebook. Please write me on my email and we can chat there or some other place..Your in my thoughts and prayers!! ((((HUGS))))Fred Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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