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Loss of 2 siblings with 3 months

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I'm Mike 

I don't really know what to say or how to act about what's going on in my life. 

I'm the youngest of 4...im 43.

So far I have lost :all grandparents, uncle, father, mother, step mom, step sister.. 

And most recent... A great person, my nephew to suicide... 

Then in April I lost my sister in a terrible accident... 

And three months later, my brother to homicide. 

I'm just completely numb inside, and I have three children of my own I need to be there for, but I have no interest. 

To boot,, there Mother, my wife was cheating on me basically our whole relationship (13yrs.).....and I've stayed in it only for my children as I don't trust people around them... My wife has terrible taste in men.. And I have young daughters... Soooooooo

But that's another story,, 

The loss of basically my entire family has about destroyed me on the inside and I have no interest in life anymore. 

I know I could use some counseling and some anti depression meds but they are afraid to give stuff out anymore... 

So I just go on.. 

Day by day... But it's soooooo hard. 

I feel like a damn zombie anymore 

What should I do?? 

How can I get through this on my own? 

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Dear Mike,

My deepest sympathies and condolences. I am very sorry for all your losses.  I know you are dealing with a lot and trying to do the best you can for you and your children.

Please know you are not alone and there is hope. I know it doesn't feel like it sometimes, but there is. Please consider reaching out to your community or your church for additional supports. Consider grief counselling or joining a support group. I also found these websites helpful:

What's Your Grief

Grief Healing Blog

Grief in Common

Grief Share

The Grief Recovery Method.

I'm so sorry. I know its hard, but I hope you'll keep taking it moment by moment and day by day.

Thinking of you and your family. Sending all my thoughts and prayers.


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You won't be me if I told you.... But I just loss my last sister just a couple days ago!!!... No jokes. 

I have officially lost all my siblings within 9 months.... I'm all alone 

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Dear Mike,

I am so sorry to hear this. I know the pain is raw right now. Please know we are all here for you.

Thinking of you during this difficult time.

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