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chriscal23

Loss of my best friend

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Hi, 

I wish I'd thought of joining a support group a few years back, but it's better late than never. 

My sister passed away about 4 years ago due to a brain tumor. It was a hard scenario as anyone could imagine going through, but I managed to get over the worse setback. Many things flashed through my mind such as regret, guilt, and pain.

At this point in my life, I've come to the conclusion that the pain will never entirely go away. There really hasn't been a day where I'm not thinking about here, even if she's the last thought before I go to bed. I guess I've sought this support group because my sister always had my back. I would share many things but above all, she would understand me better than anyone else since we had a lot in common. 

It's really tough to talk to family members who clearly don't understand what I'm going through, so I figured this would be my next best shot.

Is anyone else experiencing a similar scenario?

Thanks,

Chris 

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Hi Chris,

I am so very sorry about the loss of your sister. I have lost a brother, which was traumatic in itself, but I have not lost my sisters, who are my best friends. I can totally relate to how lost I would be without them. 

There are many people here who feel how you do. Hopefully, you will be able to connect and get some tips and advice for how to find support from others, who just won't ever be able to replace your sister, but who can still be supportive of you. 

We will be here with you,

ModKonnie

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