Members Chinaluv809 Posted August 22, 2017 Members Report Share Posted August 22, 2017 Hi, I know after the loss of a love one its hard to move on. I have currently been in a bad space (depression/loliness). I lost honestly the only person I had, my mother. My day to day life is horrible without work I WOULD BE ON THE VERGE of dying. I go home and I just hate life. I have no motivation no point of life. My relationship with my boyfriend the person that's supposed to be there for me is very selfish and thinks I use my situation as an EXCUSE. I have no FRIENDS or family( I know everyone says this but I have no friends what's so ever)! I have an older brother, we barely talk.. My life is just bad. I need help.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sadandlost Posted August 22, 2017 Members Report Share Posted August 22, 2017 Dear Chinaluv809, I completely understand how you feel. I am in the same place. My mother was the most important person in my life. I am estranged from the rest of the family and I do not have a family of my own in regards to husband/children so I am alone. I have very very few friends but after a few months no one even bothers to ask how I am managing or even brings it up. I think they assume you move on? I don't really know? Maybe they don't know what to say so they say nothing. So I feel deeply alone and I understand how you feel. Everything feels empty without my mom and I don't know what the point is to anything anymore. Every day I waste time, distracting myself. I am sick of myself. So I hear you. I am deeply sorry for your loss. I wish I could offer help but I can't. There is no cure for heartbreak. I don't think one gets over this type of loss ever. I think eventually we adjust to a different life and get used to a different kind of existence. I am not close to that after 6 months. I feel the pain daily. If you feel like you are able to, why not seek counselling/therapy so at least you can have someone who will listen. We are here listening though. I know its not the same but at least you know, we are all in the same boat, so we know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Chinaluv809 Posted August 22, 2017 Author Members Report Share Posted August 22, 2017 Thank you for the response. That helped me in a lot of ways! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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