Members AnnaLisa1981 Posted August 15, 2017 Members Report Share Posted August 15, 2017 Not sure what to say or where to start? I'm 36 years old I lost my dad on his birthday 6-8-17 we will never know what (killed him) he had cancer, blood clots, a huge bed sore & he was just (tired of fighting) though you could tell he was scared to die. I started attending a grief support group it's hard I'm not sure what I believe at times? I'm angry at my mom, my siblings and my dad's family no-one helped me for 16 years. My mom and dad should've divorced a long time ago not sure why they didn't? I'm angry my dad had no father & mother, he got addicted and became an alcoholic, got diabetes, hepatitis, blood clots, bed sores, congestive heart failure, lost his leg in 2001. And I question over, over, over & daily ask WHY? Why do humans have to suffer (so much emotionally, physically, mentally & etc)? Is Life suppose to be full of (pain)? I question too much Life because I've seen those struggling to get medicines, supplies. Is Life suppose to be so painful? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members reader Posted August 15, 2017 Members Report Share Posted August 15, 2017 Dear Annalisa, My deepest condolences and sympathies. I'm very sorry for your loss. I know the pain and sorrow is deep. And you are so right my friend, the world just doesn't make sense sometimes. I know you loved your dad a lot and did all you could for him. Its very painful to see our beloved daddies go through so much. All the questions you have are only natural and normal. I too badly wanted more help for my dad. Life isn't fair but why couldn't it be for my dad? Why couldn't he get a little break? Sadly, life is not a straight line without any pain or suffering. We all have our sorrows. It doesn't make any easier to know this, but only to say I hear where you are coming from. Thinking of you during this difficult time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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