Members Saboltears Posted January 5, 2017 Members Report Share Posted January 5, 2017 I just lost my father in Christmas day. I Haven't really grieved yet I still have the images in my head I can't concentrate on anything. I am the only child so everything is on me. I did cpr on him I just the end ending life support these images haunt me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members seattlemama Posted January 5, 2017 Members Report Share Posted January 5, 2017 I'm so sorry. I am also an only child and I have found that very few people understand the unique impact losing a parent has on an only child....and how MUCH falls on you during and after the loss. My mother died in September and I just now found this forum. I hopefully it will help both you and me. I find that I think about my mom everyday.....some days I feel more sad than others. Today I have been thinking a lot about the moment she died. At times it haunts me and other times I just feel so glad that I was with her. I wish you peace on your grief journey. It sounds like you did everything you could. Be kind to yourself and patient with yourself. Hugs to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guests Guest Posted January 8, 2017 Guests Report Share Posted January 8, 2017 I'm so sorry and I would suspect that shock is the reason you haven't grieved yet. Depending on the circumstances, it can be a delayed response. My dad died on Dec. 30th which happened to be my 53rd birthday and the reality of it didn't hit until 2 days later. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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