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Death of brother

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My little brother died a few weeks ago. Its Christmas Day  and he should be the one to wake me up etc but he's gone. I would love to know how other people find the big holidays and events after these things happen because it all feels impossible right now

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I am so very sorry about the loss of your brother. When I was 14, I lost my brother on Dec. 23, two days before Christmas. It was terrible. My family wasn't the same anymore, and holidays were rough. Christmas is always freakishly happy/sad/traumatic/emotional for me. 

Most people find holidays and special occasions hard, especially the first year. You are not alone in how you feel. 

We will be here with you,


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