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Wondering What I Did Wrong

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I'm so confused... I don't know what I did wrong. I was only married for 3 years, and all of a sudden he wanted to end it... He ended it ON thanksgiving. On our anniversary... I just feel so lost. He didn't cheat, but all of a sudden he's in love with someone else... It kinda makes me feel like I wasn't doing what I should have been.. Like I wasn't giving him enough of my time, or love. But I did though. I did all of that because he was my world.

He ended it 2 months after I had our child, our beautiful little girl who wound up being a still born. So it all sort of hit right there at once. And it's so hard, because now I'm all alone :(. He told me he still wanted us to remain really good friends, like we were before we got married. But i don't know if i can be friends again until i heal completely from the hurt of the divorce. Is that wrong? I mean I'm all for being best friends again, but only after i get over the shock of us splitting up. But i kind of still feel like I'm never gonna STOP loving him... I just don't know what to do. Someone please give me some advice.

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Dear Kayla,

My deepest condolences and sympathies on the passing of your precious baby girl. I'm so sorry for all your pain and sorrow. This is a lot for one young woman to bear. I hope you can surround yourself with loving friends and family during this difficult time. I know its hard. I don't know why your husband made the choices he did. But know you did nothing wrong. We cannot control anyone but ourselves. I wish we could. Sending you lots of love and hugs.

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