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Donna Marie

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    New York USA
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    Reading, my husband and my sons
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    My husband
  • Angel Date
    January 4th 2018

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  1. How do I carry on now my soulmate is gone

    Life is so unfair isn't it? I'm dreading leaving my house. My boss said take your time and we are here for you but I know I have to go back at som point. It' strange because the day before JJ died I promised him I would be home more that I would cut my hours down. Well I guess he got his wish because by him dying I have had a revelation and I know I worked to much but now I have to be here for my boys and my ma. I pray for you during this truamatic period for you. Stay strong x
  2. How do I carry on now my soulmate is gone

    Thank you , I just can' believe JJ is gone. This time last week he was kissing me bye as he left for work we were supposed to be going out with his cousins for dinner that night and instead they sat in the relatives room hearing the Dr say to my 10 year old and myself "it' not worth our time to continue to work on him" who says that for the love of God who says that whilst the look at a 10 year old child that's in shock?. My family feel helpless because I left them and everything I had in England to e with JJ in the USA. I sat here yesterday and cried my my family because noone thinks of the in laws my mum lost her son in law my nieces and nephews an Uncle etc and my heart aches for them, but because we do stuff so fast over here they couldn't get to us. I pray you find some peace in this terrible journey we are travelling.
  3. How do I carry on now my soulmate is gone

    Thank you for sharing you story and your love, Charles sounds like a lovely man and you were blessed . I will carry on posting . Take care and God bless
  4. How do I carry on now my soulmate is gone

    I'm so very very for your loss, I have no words at all to comfort you, but to offer you my love and prayers. I'm just so angry, angry at him for going, at myself for failing to save him, at my mother in law for not telling me that my husband went to her and told her that he thought he might have had a heart episode (I was about to under go surgery on my neck so he probably didn't want to worry me). I just thank God I was here at the end and that I had just spent the last month with him whilst I was out on disability after me necksurgery. We laughed every day in December we were just starting to live again and then he was gone. My heart aches so much and if it wasn' for our boys I would've ladly gone with him. We always used to say ur love was "the greatest love story never to have been told" I'm from England he is from New York and through AOL we found our soulmate and I honestly believe we were fated to be together. I don't know if I can help you in your grieving as it's so new for me.
  5. My husband was ripped from me on January 4th and I don' know if I can do this without him. I know I sound selfish as we have a 10 year old son.My son watched me pound on his daddy' chest begging him to not leave me in our bedroom I'm devastated that that's his last image of his daddy. My JJ was only 46, we wasn't supposed to be doing this, we were supposed to grow old together. We had his calling hours Sunday and his service yesterday but of course living in CNY I can't bury him till spring due to the snow and permafrost. I just don' know what to do. Did he hear me scream for him to stay, Did he hear me tell him I love him and always Will? My heart s broke and I don' know anything anymore.
  6. My husband was ripped from me on January 4th and I don' know if I can do this without him. I know I sound selfish as we have a 10 year old son.My son watched me pound on his daddy' chest begging him to not leave me in our bedroom I'm devastated that that's his last image of his daddy. My JJ was only 46, we wasn't supposed to be doing this, we were supposed to grow old together. We had his calling hours Sunday and his service yesterday but of course living in CNY I can't bury him till spring due to the snow and permafrost. I just don' know what to do. Did he hear me scream for him to stay, Did he hear me tell him I love him and always Will? My heart s broke and I don' know anything anymore.
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