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  1. My angel

    Thank you all for your support. I get to say goodmorning to her and goodnight every day. My other 19 year old cat is moping around and not really eating much. But giving her special cuddles and talking to her. I bless cally for having the strength to get back. I feel for you and your lost one . Xxxx
  2. My angel

    Hi all thank you. I had a full meltdown last night but feel slightly better this morning. We laid her to rest in our garden. I realise how fortunate i am thet she found the strength to get back and that we got to hold her and talk to her one last time. She was an amazing cat and will be really missed. Our other cat is missing her and thats hard to watch. The saddness comes in waves and i cry but i know she is better now. No more pain. It helps for me to talk and cant thank you all enough for listening. Xxx
  3. My angel

    On friday i let my 19 year old cat out for her usual morning hunt . She didnt come back. We asked our neighbours to check their outhouses and garages sheds etc. Put up pictures on lamposts and pushed notices through doors. Friday came and went. Saturday morning no sign went for a walk around her haunts with her food. Cally loved food. Still no sign. We slept downstairs in case she came home and at 1.15 am sunday morning we heard her meowing outside. We rushed her to the vets as she couldnt use her back legs. So she must have crawled her way back. The vet said both her back legs were broken and would have to be amputated. She wouldnt survive the anaesthetic i knew at 19. So made the hardest decision and stayed with her stroking her telling her to go and chase mice. Told her how much we loved her and always would. Im heartbroken my fingers ache with the loss. We brought her home and have buried her in our garden were she used to lie in the sun. How can i carry on without her it hurts so much .