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  1. PatriciaEileen I know exactly what you mean. It's 2 days since I lost my brother and the pain is completely overwhelming. I want to escape then I want to be at home, I don't then I can't do anything I'm so depressed, I'm having panic attacks and I just can't stop reliving the awful moments of his death.
  2. I know 2 days is nothing but I am so overwhelmed with grief for my brother (who died on Thursday) that I am having panic attacks and feelings that I can't get through even another hour. I would never harm myself but I am beside myself and don't know what to do. The scary thing is I am already on antidepressants.
  3. BethAnnF, I'd love to know how you are now. I was with my brother when he died 2 days ago and like your experience his death was far from peaceful. He was shouting and repeating help me, as though he was terrified. I can't get it out of my head and am overwhelmed with pain I feel I can't go on.
  4. I am new to this forum and don't know if I'm using it correctly but I need help. My brother died 2 days ago after a long battle with cancer. We were with him regularly (we live 3 hours away) and constantly in the final days. He deteriorated so quickly at the end and died with all his family around him I had expected his death to be peaceful but just before he died he spent 20minutes shouting for us to help him and screaming. He finally calmed when the nurse came round and sedated him He died soon after. I am haunted by his final 24 hours and am having panic attacks where I am convinced the only way I will feel better is to get him back. I am overwhelmed with pain and grief.