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  1. Grieving my pet

    This forum is so great, just knowing that others understand the pain helps so much. I feel lucky to also have friends and family who are supportive, and don’t shy away from me bawling like a baby over simple things like finding a stray cat hair. Hopefully you all have similar support systems, it helps so much. KMB and KayC, it is impressive how you could deal with not only the loss of a pet, but of a spouse. I’m not sure I could survive that. Jackie, your Junior looks so sweet! And I dread going to pick up my Dru’s ashes. Thinking I might have to keep them out of sight for awhile. I have never been a very spiritual person, but i feel like Dru is here watching me. Our pets have souls and they are with us, always.
  2. Grieving my pet

    I’m so sorry for your loss, It sounds like we have both gone through recent similar experiences. My precious kitty of 12 Years was diagnosed with ear cancer 3 months ago, but two days ago she suddenly starts having breathing problems. Next day at the vet: cancer has spread to the lungs. It’s stunning how fast these things happen, and after talking to many friends who have lost pets that apparently is not uncommon. It’s hard even being in my own bedroom now because I’m too used to having my fur-baby there to cuddle with. Clearly i don’t have any stellar advice on how to get over the pain, but do know you are not alone.