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  • Loss Type
    Loss of Adult Son, Wesley Age 35, Heart Attack
  • Angel Date
    Sept. 04, 2017


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  1. Loss of an Adult Child

    Made it through Thanksgiving, overall it was a good day, missed Wesley, but was able to enjoy the day. Appreciate all your post.
  2. Loss of an Adult Child

    Appreciate all of your post, today was a good day! Next will be Thanksgiving but I feel like we need to carry on with our family traditions. We have hosted Thanksgiving in our home for about the last 20 years, most of our immediate family will be with us. Thanks again for your kind support!
  3. Loss of an Adult Child

    Today we will celebrate my grandson's 5th birthday, mixed emotions, first social in my son's home since Sept.04. It amazes me how the little things seem so big after you lose someone so close, things like the girls pulled 2 teeth each or how cute by looked in their Halloween costumes. I keep reminding myself that we are blessed to live close enough to be involved in our grands life. This was Wesley' favorite time of the year, fall, hunting season, deer camp, he loved nature. It is true about emotional triggers.
  4. Loss of an Adult Child

    Thanks for all the warm welcomes to this site. I will begin posting about Wesley's life soon. It has been a great support to be able to read your post. Today we attended Sunday service with our grandkids, enjoyed the day. Sure missed my son throughout the day.
  5. Loss of an Adult Child

    Dee I help with my grandkids in the afternoon while their mother is at work. I started about 2 years ago when the oilfield slowed down during that time Wesley worked jobs around home, he had been back to oilfield work the last 9 months. Two girls age 7 & 6, One boy age 4, I'm thankful to be able to spend time with the children it is healing for both of us.
  6. Loss of an Adult Child

    Dianne thanks for your words of comfort!
  7. Loss of an Adult Child

    So thankful to find this forum. We lost our son, Wesley age 35, due to a heart attack on Sept. 04, 2017. I'm just trying to adjust, I hurt for the loss of my son, at the same time trying to answer the hard questions asked by my grandchildren. Taking it one day at a time.
  8. Loss of Adult Son

    Thanks so much for the reply it helps finding support that truly understands.
  9. Loss of Adult Son

    I feel so empty, lost our son on Labor Day 09-04-2017, 35 years old, died suddenly leaving behind 3 small children & wife. Sometimes I think I'm doing ok then a wave of grief flows in I think about the future, our babies growing up without their Dad, the thought of never seeing or hearing from him again, I want to feel happiness again. I have wonderful family, friends, & church family, I appreciate their support but I miss my son.