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Existential1

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  1. Funeral

    I'm going at this rather solo. Don't want to bother others with this - and let's face it: the idea of death freaks people out and I don't want to alienate people.
  2. Funeral

    The other factor in this equation is that IF and I stress the if part, my illness gets so extreme - extreme with pain and IF I carry out self deliverance to end the pain of something I will die from any, will this change the attitude of the people knowing I died at my own hands when it comes to the expenses to dispose of me?
  3. Funeral

    Thank you for your thoughts on the matter.
  4. Funeral

    Thanks reader. I did speak with a private funeral home and they said I would have to speak with the town hall of where I live and inquire if I can arrange something. It is a bit awkward as typically no man wants to have to give his hard luck story to a third party, especially being an american in Spain everyone thinks we (american expats) are all well off. And although I'm liked here where I am, the towns folks might resent having to use municipal resources to dispose of a non spaniard - that's what is so annoying about the situation.
  5. Hello All -Need advice - pragmatic advice.I'm an American living in europe, and will be dying soon. Due to my medical condition, it lead to a financial condition that lead me to not have the resources for even a cremation.And no - I'm not asking for any financial help.But I am concerned about my family ending up with getting stuck with fees for my disposal.What ever happened to the pauper's funeral? When I go I do not want to have my family get burdened like this.Thoughts?
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