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jojovols

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About jojovols

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  • Gender
    Male
  • Location
    California
  • Loss Type
    Loss of 4 month old daughter
  • Angel Date
    December 03, 2016

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  • Last Name
    Lara
  • First Name
    Joe
  • Zip
    94591
  1. It was 8 months, 3 days ago

    December 03, 2016, my little angel passed away. She was in my care, and I found her non responsive. I tried to resuscitate her til the paramedics and police came, and for a short while, it seemed things would look up...they ended up saying she passed from SIDS. She was 4 months old...she had been born on August 1st. I've found myself just spiraling down deeper into depression (and i have been trying to fight it hard, with every ounce I can), but it's still got a grasp of me. The people that try to talk to me, bless them, but they don't understand, in a nutshell they all pretty much say "it'll take time, but you'll be alright", (in their own ways), or, can't understand why I'm still upset, "it's almost been a year"....anyone who's gone through this, or is currently going through, I would love to talk to you. I don't have any answers, maybe you do? But if you don't have them either, maybe, we could work together in trying to find it?
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