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About Somersky

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    White Rock BC
  • Loss Type
    Adult son
  • Angel Date
    April 18th 2016 ( Skylar's birthday April 18th 1996)


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    Pilates instructor/Studio owner
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  1. Loss of an Adult Child

    Thank you for all the kind words. All of you are very special. Boy when those days come they come pretty hard ... I guess it’s only been 18 months
  2. Loss of an Adult Child

    I’m having a tough day. I have to go through Skylar’s medical records for his abnormal ecg’s. It’s so hard. I still cannot believe he’s gone...
  3. Loss of an Adult Child

    Okay let me rephrase that ... ericasmom ... she’s just great!!!!
  4. Loss of an Adult Child

    Ericasmom... for some reason .:. I just think are so awesome. Loop fitness and Pilates is my company .. I am doing my best to keep it going. I am worried about our last child ... our daughter... she had a holter moniter..it came back with abnormal beats. I can’t lose my daughter.... I know they are doing the best they can to expedite genetic testing...
  5. Loss of an Adult Child

    Remembering today and EVERYDAY everyone that has sacrificed for our life ...
  6. Loss of an Adult Child

    Funny how doctors have such control ...
  7. Loss of an Adult Child

    He hit Skylar
  8. Loss of an Adult Child

    I am reporting one of Skylar’s doctors to the college of Physicians and surgeons...it takes a lot of courage.. but I have to do it for Skylar
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  11. Loss of an Adult Child

    I've been there..I've been in the hospital...I didn't think I can go on without Skylar. Skylar was the love of my life...but...I have another love too ...my daughter summer and I KNOW she would be devastated without her mother. Losing Skylar was so hard on her I can't imagine losing a parent in addition to that. I've questioned MANY things since his passing ...friendships especially! Sadly the true friends you thought would be there became absent ...family members distant...strange because those are the ones you need the most which drives you down further into that hole. I'm pretty sure Skylar is so busy up there...but he knows to give me a sign. Sometimes you just have to look for it ...sometimes it's very inconspicuous ...don't they know we don't have 100% capacity of our brain ...lol regardless if your child is a heavenly child they are still your child...they still love you and they are still looking out for you. I believe that!
  12. Loss of an Adult Child

    Omg....that song..how to save a life...it's my daughters favourite song. It's a beautiful song...with heartfelt lyrics.
  13. Loss of an Adult Child

    My husband is out of town and I told him...his response was "why do those things happen when I'm not around?" Dave is a lot more conservative that way...funny the day before Skylar passed away he said that my husband and sister were "squares" and he and myself think outside the box. Yes...I was open to the sign and received it. Today there is a bit of an aftershock...was he trying to get through to me for a reason? Or just say he's around?
  14. Loss of an Adult Child

    Hey there....sunny in BC hope it's sunny where you are. We dropped our daughter off halfway across the country to university..it was extremely hard! We are now "empty nesters" in one year from two kids to empty nesters!!! It's a lot!!!! I know Skylar is with his sister...I feel it. A strange thing happened yesterday ...I thought I would share since only this group would understand without being freaked out. I went into Skylar's room and the dogs would not go in for some reason? I sat on Skylar's bed :.i had my phone with me. I asked the dogs where Skylar was (I always do) at that time my phone rang and the number that came up was Skylar's old cell phone number. Of course I was by myself so I didn't answer it ...I was actually in shock and to be honest a bit scared. I quickly left the room and closed the door. I texted the number back saying I was busy asking what they wanted but didn't get a response. I could have dwelled on it all day so I called the number back (I have Skylar's cell phone beside my bed and of course it is inactive) it was someone else's voicemail! What a coincidence that someone called me obviously wrong number but had been reissued Skylar's old number. I am also seeing a lot of feathers ...some at the front door. I guess I can look at them as signs....knowing he's ok. its pretty quiet here...
  15. Loss of an Adult Child

    Thanks Louann..I sent you a message. My husband walks around like nothing happened ...like it's all ok and tells me not to dwell on it. Talking about it is healing and I don't ever want Skylar to be a memory but want him to always be alive everyday in my life! Margo ... prayers for your mom!!!! My mom overcame stage 4... 5 years ago. Never underestimate prayer. Miley I am new here and already feel such a warm welcome from this family. Not a forum/group anyone would want to belong to but we do and have to accept it but know we are here for each other.