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  1. almost about to SNAP!!

    Hi, what you are going through its very difficult. First having to deal with the loss of your mother, and then not getting the support you need from your mate. I would like to encourage you to keep trying to keep your marriage vows, but that would be your personal decision. But the fact that you are asking for help shows that you have not given up all hope. Maybe remembering the reasons why you married him can help you reflect on the qualities that you like about him. You said that the change happened when your mother died. It could be that your husband is grieving in his own way. Our even that he just does not know how to comfort you. The Bible actually offers advice in dealing with problems in marriage. It can be hard to keep our composure when we feel that we are not treated right. Proverbs 15:1 says that, “An answer, when mild, turns away rage.” So even if you are provoked, maybe a good attitude will help him to calm down and listen to you. It will definitely help to have family counseling. That way you both can express your feelings. I hope that things get better for you both.