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  1. How do you stop thinking about it

    I'm going through a divorce after 2+ years of marriage and 8 years dating. We have a son. I get no choice in the matter it is what he wants. He met someone through a relative of him and had been communicating with her even before we split when he decided he didn't want to be married anymore. I thought we were happy, not perfect but happy. I was so blindsided by the whole thing. He even took the time to tell me he never really loved me to begin with even though he understands I have always loved him unconditionally. He informed me the list of cons to being with me was way longer than the pros. We are co parenting as well as we can. Truthfully I try to have my mother handle custody exchanges because its so painful to see him so happy knowing that this other woman took my whole life. He is now enjoying his newfound freedom (I have our son most days) and loving his new life. I however cannot stop thinking or obsessing about everything. I'm sad and feel broken and worthless. Any advice?
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