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About Ritchie_uk

  • Rank
    Advanced Member

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  • Gender
  • Location
    London Uk
  • Loss Type
    End of a Relationship

Contact Methods

  • Skype


  • Occupation
    Mental Health Support
  • Interests
    Computers, Music, Cooking, Animal Welfare, Gardening
  • First Name
  • Country
    United Kingdom
  • About Me
    For those that have no Dreams will Perish

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  1. Hi Konnie Why do we have to ask for accounts to be deleted? Everybody sees that people arnt happy with this site? Can you not enable that option? Envision allows it. Thanks
  2. Thanks for you're Honesty Nobody1
  3. Hi Munmun How are you doing?
  4. Dear Steven Kelly, It is tough, as it's one of the processes the Human mind goes through to try and compensate and cope. You are a smart guy, and recognise these processes, even if you don't know why. Just live each second by second, other-wise you will live in turmoil, and torture yourself. You must must must hang in there, and reach out, which you are doing. I do get it, I really do. My heart breaks for you. Ritchie
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  6. Dear StevenKelly, My deepest condolences for you're loss. Thankyou for posting the beautiful Photograph on you're wedding day, she looks absolutely Gorgeous. I know it feels unreal, but how are life's plans going, like the career move, you mentioned? I can't add to what has already been so eloquently said by the other caring members in this forum. Please take care Ritchie
  7. Hi Nobody1, I'm really sorry for you're shocking loss. Personally I find it difficult not to respond, but all I can say is that the group is here for you, to listen. Take care
  8. Hi Edeltgi, I hope you're day has been Ok today? It's a positive step forward that you are going for counselling next week. Any step forward however small is positive. From experience don't be too hard on yourself, as the human mind often takes 2 steps forward and 3 back, but that's not a negative thing, it's part of the healing process. My Mum said to me ages ago that Sobbing is the bodies way of releasing poisons, and Tears of sadness when analysed by scientists were different than tears of Joy for example. I have cried buckets in my life. As I mentioned before, just be here, and tell us all as much as you feel comfortable sharing. I hope the counselling goes well and does at least help in some way. Dear KayC, thank you for you're kind word, here and always on this Forum. Ritchie
  9. Dear emilydeltgen, Thankyou for sharing the story of how you met you're husband. I'm really sorry to hear about his tragic suicide, I can't imagine what you are going through now. Please try not to punish yourself, for things that were said and done, we have all do it. Thankyou for reaching out in this forum, as many are struggling similar situations. If you can make this you're home and I hope you feel you can continue share as you have so bravely done for as long as you need to. Take care emilydeltgen
  10. Hey BigKev You owe nothing, other than armed with the painful experience you have gone through, you will know more of how to support somebody in the future. Bless You
  11. Hey BigKev, You're arrival will help many, even tho you don't realise it. Keep receiving, support, and help, as long as you need it. I'm doing really good, thanks for asking, I havn't always been tho. We do get through it, and the only time we don't is when we decide to give up. And yes I tried giving up a few times, as I coudn't take it, even tho sometimes it felt I was hanging on the cliff edge, by my fingertips. Good does come out of awful situations, but just now ride the Storm Brother. Are you getting any support yet? Take Care Brother.
  12. Hi BigKev I hope you are doing Ok? Folks have been in my thoughts, and I have been watching the posts but not commented for a week or 2. I really Hope other Folks are feeling supported, in here and not so isolated. Recently at work I had to deal with an attempted suicide, but thank God the person failed. It makes me realise more and more, how important Mental Health is. Someone was saying on Facebook that its Mental Health Week. Take care one and all. All my Love
  13. Hey KayC I hope it has helped someone at least. Music kept me going through the dark times, Bless Ritchie
  14. Dear Meandhim I'm so sorry, to hear about you're sudden loss. I can't imagine how you are struggling. Try not to feel lost, but Log in when you can in here, as we are all here to help and support, as best as we know how. There is no agenda here. Take Care Ritchie