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  1. Death of mother and husband moved out

    Thanks for the kind words and encouragement. Healing just takes time and I do have family and good support at work.
  2. I lost my mother in June of 2012 after a long illness. All seven siblings were present with her in the hospital for a week with prayer and songs. She was a very strong Christian woman. I left to return home and I jumped back into a busy work schedule glad mom was not suffering anymore. It did not hit me until August when I would try to call my mother's number and carried the obituary with me in my purse every day. I became very sad and went on antidepressants and counseling.Then my husband became very angry about my "clinging" to sadness. He slowly withdrew, moved to another bedroom, locked his phone, took all his computers. We had some very heated discussions and said hurtful things. He finally decided he could not take my sadness and moved out a month ago. I feel traumatized by the loss of both parents, being so far from my siblings, and a husband who left. I am taking each day at a time and praying for peace in my life again. Thanks for allowing me to vent. Vetter