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    Jesse David 8/2/84-10/10/12; Taylor James 6/25/87-8/87

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  1. Dee, I am glad that Erifest turned out so well...and that so many came to remember her. How special that the funds are used to help others in need. I liked the story of the girl and how you bought her new clothes...very special. Lou Ann, I do feel much like you...for me it is PTSD...and some things can trigger it off...
  2. Thanks Sherry for sharing that...I often look at gravestones too for the messages they contain...for me, I see connection between those who have gone on before and those of us still here...
  3. Lou Ann, totally agree with that thought....
  4. Mary Anne, so good to see your Stephen's smiling face today...may his light shine down on you today, filling your heart with warmth and love.
  5. Happy Heavenly Birthday, Jeff! We shout out your name today. Kate, sending gentle thoughts your way.
  6. Thanks for the dog pictures...I do think that the unconditional love an animal provides is healing. My dog never left my side for 3 years. Gretchen, I am sorry for that additional loss...it just seems like it stabs in my heart every time I hear of that...the past week someone was killed on my highway, and I was behind the accident maybe 10 minutes...did a lot of praying. Forest's stone is so decorated with LOVE! Dee, can I share your poem? My cousin had her son pass earlier in 2012. Somersky, thanks for sharing the pics of your beautiful son!
  7. Devianz, what a great picture of your beautiful boy! Somersky, I am sorry for the loss of your dear son, Skyler. Yes you are in the right place. Many have come here...some have stayed on to be a beacon to others --- it is a good place. Susan, I did not realize that John David had sepsis...actually my mom told me about this research...and then Georgina posted...yes, we are coming to our marker days. Kate, sending gentle thoughts your way.... It is late tonight but wanted to get this posted... Also, thinking of Gretchen and those we haven't heard from in awhile...Mary Ann, Becky....
  8. Tina, I am sorry for the loss of your friend's son. Once you lose your own child, it seems like these are harder blows to take. Much closer to the heart. Yours is a recent loss so there is still a lot of shock...may you find gentleness in your day.
  9. Dee, thinking of you today on Erica's Angel day. Sending gentle wishes and hugs.
  10. Kate, I am sorry for the loss of your good friend. Hugs.
  11. Georgina....you may want to ask your doctor about intraveneous vitamin C for additional tratment for sepsis....this is the article http://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2017/03/23/521096488/doctor-turns-up-possible-treatment-for-deadly-sepsis It's hard not to get excited about news of a potentially effective treatment for sepsis, a condition that leads to multiple organ failure and kills more people in the hospital than any other disease. But there have been so many false promises about this condition over the years, it's also wise to treat announcements — like one published online by the journal, Chest — with caution. The study, from Eastern Virginia Medical School in Norfolk, Va., reported some remarkable success in treating patients who were at high risk of sudden death. The story began in January, 2016, when Dr. Paul Marik was running the intensive care unit at Sentara Norfolk General Hospital. A 48-year-old woman came in with a severe case of sepsis — inflammation frequently triggered by an overwhelming infection. "Her kidneys weren't working. Her lungs weren't working. She was going to die," Marik said. "In a situation like this, you start thinking out of the box." Marik had recently read a study by researchers at Virginia Commonwealth University in Richmond. Dr. Berry Fowler and his colleagues had shown some moderate success in treating people who had sepsis with intravenous vitamin C. Marik decided to give it a try. He added in a low dose of corticosteroids, which are sometimes used to treat sepsis, along with a bit of another vitamin, thiamine. His desperately ill patient got an infusion of this mixture. "I was expecting the next morning when I came to work she would be dead," Marik said."But when I walked in the next morning, I got the shock of my life." The patient was well on the road to recovery. Marik tried this treatment with the next two sepsis patients he encountered, and was similarly surprised. So he started treating his sepsis patients regularly with the vitamin and steroid infusion. After he'd treated 50 patients, he decided to write up his results. As he described it in Chest, only four of those 47 patients died in the hospital — and all the deaths were from their underlying diseases, not from sepsis. For comparison, he looked back at 47 patients the hospital had treated before he tried the vitamin C infusion and found that 19 had died in the hospital. This is not the standard way to evaluate a potential new treatment. Ordinarily, the potential treatment would be tested head to head with a placebo or standard treatment, and neither the doctors nor the patients would know who in the study was getting the new therapy. But the results were so stunning, Marik decided that from that point on he would treat all his sepsis patients with the vitamin C infusion. So far, he's treated about 150 patients, and only one has died of sepsis, he said. That's a phenomenal claim, considering that of the million Americans a year who get sepsis, about 300,000 die. "So that's the equivalent of three jumbo jets crashing every single day," Marik said. An effective treatment for sepsis would be a really big deal. "If it turns out in further studies that this is true, and we can validate it, then this will be an unbelievably huge deal," said Dr. Craig Coopersmith, a surgery professor at Emory University School of Medicine. "But right now we should treat it as a preliminary deal that needs to be validated." Marik may face extra skepticism because the main ingredient is vitamin C, which has attracted a great deal of skepticism over the years. Fowler at VCU was concerned about that when he wanted to launch a study about the role of vitamin C in sepsis. "Honestly, when we submitted the grant to the NIH, I was fully expecting them to say 'vitamin C? Really?' " Fowler tells Shots. But he'd made the case that vitamin C wasn't simply a once-trendy antioxidant. When the vitamin is injected, as opposed to taken orally, it can influence the immune system's response to inflammation, he told Shots. The NIH gave him a $3.2 million grant to run a carefully controlled study of vitamin C to treat sepsis, with all the usual conditions: It includes placebos; the scientists don't know who's getting the active drug; and it's being conducted at several universities.
  12. Thank you Becky for sharing Jared's picture! Beautiful Lion
  13. Lesley, sending gentle thoughts your way. I agree that one should self-care. I still have Lorazapam as a back up medication. I had to switch doctors early on to keep this prescription which now, I only use once in a while. Are your parents able to help you with emotional support? My mom (and dad) have been there as my sister. Also, just going outside for a bit...and making sure you are touching the soil with your bare feet...it helps for reconnecting as I felt like I was on an alien planet afterwards... and just finding a sunny spot to relax in (vitamin D)...that is what my mom does when she gets depressed. She also has had 2 child losses, my adult sister, Julie in 2003, and an infant son as well. Hugs. Dee, thanks for sharing that last picture of your daughter. I asked Christina to look at it too. It almost seems to me that the cloudy overlay has a pink cast to it. Or maybe it just appears that way...and her bandana looks pink. I was thinking about that because of the pink cloud outburst you said happened right after she left to go "home". You have had a lot on your shoulders the last few months, with hubbie and now your son. Try to get some health smoothies in and maybe some D vitamins.
  14. Dee, do you have a copy of the picture of the 3 girls together?