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Jesse David & Taylor Mom

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    Jesse David's & Taylor's Mom

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    Jesse David 8/2/84-10/10/12; Taylor James 6/25/87-8/87

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  1. Loss of an Adult Child

    Kate, you will like the song, as I thought of Jeff to when I viewed it. Dee, I am sorry for your friend...does she have assistance in her family? Lesley, thanks for your posting above...there are many who I miss their input here.....this place has been a lifeline for me and the kindness of everyone here. Susan, I love the picture of your John David, one of favorites! Dianne, good to see your post! My time has been somewhat limited as both my jobs are taking up more time than I expected....I will be glad once December is over!
  2. Loss of an Adult Child

    Thinking of everyone as we are missing our beloved ones. I am including a link below to a beautiful song. Something Jesse would have liked. Homeless man plays beautiful song with powerful message https://youtu.be/FhgZ4hBGJkY?t=28s (could not get the video to embed...so follow the link)
  3. Loss of an Adult Child

    Thinking of you Kate on Jeff's angel date. May you and Ross find gentleness in the day.
  4. Loss of an Adult Child

    Susan, sending healing thoughts to you for your upcoming medical tests. Sending lots of hugs. Ayanna's mom, congratulations on the new book of poems from your daughter! It is a beautiful legacy. Tina, I think being in the first three years, most of my time was spent in a fog. For me, I believe it was about the 4 year along I could focus on really anything. Have to run...sending love to all.
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    Thanks Leah, Dee, Georgina and Kate for the well-wishes on Benton. It is a tremendous relief. Kate, if you can, post the Christmas tree pic. Susan, are you okay? Miss your posts. Dianne, sending gentle thoughts. Leah, I know how hard it is. Are any of the grandchildren over at 16 years old? They may be able to opt for emancipation. here is a link http://www.crckids.org/child-support/child-emancipation/
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    For you Georgina,
  7. Loss of an Adult Child

    Tina, I am sorry for the way your niece treated you. A grief counselor said, that too only keep those people in your life that will truly be in your corner. The body is already under trauma, and these types of attacks you need to protect yourself against. Prayers for a new job. I too left my job after I lost my son. Prayers. Thanks Kate for your response and for Dee too. I am taking vitamins still, and do the practice of grounding as recommended by my mom. (where you stand out on bare ground with your bare feet, only on warm days now! ) Dr. Bernie Siegel had some good recommendations for self - care in his video. Susan, you okay out there? Georgina, I am sorry not many remembered James Birthday. My daughter and I always thought how handsome he is and how much he looks like your hubby.
  8. Loss of an Adult Child

    ALL, we have just received the news that we basically won the case to keep our grandson, Benton. He is now 4 years old, coming up on 5 in February. Thanks to all who supported me here!
  9. Loss of an Adult Child

    I have just worked all week at my retail job and through Black Friday. I am still doing 2 jobs and caring for my grandson every other week. Holidays are hard and still we struggle through. My mom has suffered a double child loss like myself, one infant , my sister was killed by being ran over in 2002 at age 42. The driver ran away and was later caught. Lately she has been listening to recording by Dr. Bernie Siegel. He is an interesting doctor having cared for many child patients during the course of his career. I noticed his theme in approaching his patients is one of tender concern -- and a willingness to listen. I will post the video she is viewing now for those who might be interested. I would add that be gentle with yourself during this time. Allow some down time and self care. The mind-body connection is not be underestimated. I find myself in the latter camp of one day looking forward to seeing my children...as I have known for a long time that life continues after this life. Sending gentle thoughts.
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    Lesley, Sending gentle thoughts for your friends, and the death of Tommy's friend. Take care of yourself too, as these kind of events can send one into a spiral. Sherry, I think the yellow roses were fitting...thank you for mentioning Taylor...I am sure they grow up in heaven and they will meet us to help guide us as we too make our transition. Dee, your son might try taking Curamin and also Bromalein, (spelling might be off) I took both for my back, and it aids in the healing process. Back surgery takes a long time to heal from.
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    Dee, it looks like it is going to be a process yet through the legal system. She has to visit the mom's, check on Benton's school, etc. The woman doing this seems like she is too overloaded which doesn't help. I am hoping maybe 3 more months. But the court system moves at a snail's pace. How is your son's back by the way? Also your hubby? I remember they both had some surgery awhile ago now.
  12. Loss of an Adult Child

    I saw this in one of my Facebook groups. It is an Near Death Conference in Texas that is going to have Dr. Jeffrey Long as a speaker. He is a lead researcher on near death experiences and consciousness surviving after this life. Also, John Burke who just authored a new book on NDEs is supposed to speak as well. Here is a link, it is to the Facebook page on this https://www.facebook.com/events/135600520495495
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    Mary Ann, thinking of you today and sending you gentle thoughts for Steve. I am going to share a portion of a dream I had with my son within the last couple weeks. In it, he held a small diary-like book. As I looked closer at the inside cover this is what is said, "I love you now, I loved you then, and I will love you forever." Peace.
  14. Loss of an Adult Child

    Sherry, sending gentle thoughts your way on this angel day of your baby girl, Lisa.
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    Ted, is the last picture of your daughter?