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  1. +RIP. In loving memory. Today, Tomorrow, and Forever in my heart... 3-7-2006+
  2. +RIP. In loving memory. Today, Tomorrow, and Forever.+ 3-7-2006
  3. I lost my parents when I was young too and I have a hard time sympathizing with those people who still have living parents or their parents die in their 80s and 90s. Maybe we've just shut down that part of us because we grieved so long ago. I like the point you made about equating love with loss.
  4. +Prayers to all the people in Japan+ My heart and thoughts are with you at this time. I pray you will find courage, hope, resilience, and strength to rebuild your future.
  5. Thank you for your kind thoughts at this time. Once more I made it through those days:(. XO
  6. Tomorrow is the 5th anniversary of my husband's suicide. After 5 yrs. our families are still fractured, I stand heartbroken and helpless as grief continues to weigh heavily upon me. I pray for peace and comfort, if only something can...
  7. Hallowed ground

  8. Hallowed ground

    All Saints' Vigil Prayer(Oct. 31) As daylight fades, be our light and darkness. We give you thanks for surrounding us with the brightness of the evening light, Enfold us with the radiance of this light to shine into our hearts with brightness, the light of the world. Dispel the darkness of our hearts that we may be loving and living now and forever. Amen All Saints' Day Prayer(Nov.1) Bless us with grace and forgiveness. May all the saints and angels bring all our blessed dead and all those who have gone before us, the joys of everlasting life. Amen Var. of Lithuanian All Souls' Prayer(Nov. 2) Dear souls of the dead You are still remembered by our families in perpetual remembrance and memories, our grandparents, parents, relatives, children, and everyone whom death took away from our homes. Amen Prayer of Remembrance We thank you for the gift of life and for those who now rest from their labors. We thank you for all remembered and forgotten dear souls most precious to us. We give thanks for those who during the past year died. We thank you for their life and love, who have gone on ahead and left us their teachings. May we be comforted and supported in our grief. Amen
  9. I want to say once more that the suicide jokes on the web are totally offensive and insensitive to suicide survivors. In fact anything related to death that is sent to a survivor is insensitive and cruel and should be stopped. If you haven't gone through the suicide of a loved one, you can't possibly understand the hell of their grief. This applies to sending anything about death to other people in grief too.
  10. ryansmum, ooooh lots of red flags. Please try to see it with your head and not your heart. In grief that is extremely hard to do. I just want to spare you further hurt:(. Perhaps things will work out. Just please be careful. Thinking of you. Aurora
  11. ryansmum, please be careful in your new relationship. I jumped into one a year after my husband died and it was way too soon. I wound up being further traumatized and it added to my PTSD from my husband's suicide. Having a relationship with somebody that has PTSD from anything is hard. There is a lot of emotional baggage that goes along with all the good unless they've had therapy. Good luck and God Bless!
  12. That happened to my therapist when she was only 12 yrs. old. She witnessed the suicide of her father like that. She repressed her grief for 30 yrs. afterwards.
  13. Hallowed ground

    The Knot's Prayer Dear God, please untie the knots that are in my mind,my heart and my life. Remove the have nots, the can nots and the do nots that I have in my mind. Erase the will nots, may nots, might nots that may find a home in my heart. Release me from the could nots, would knots that obstruct my life and most of all Dear God, I ask that you remove from my mind, my heart and my life all of the 'am 'nots that I have allowed to hold me back, especially the thought that I am not good enough. Amen-Author known to God
  14. Hallowed ground

    Forgive us Lord for wondering why the thorns live on and the roses die-unknown
  15. Thank you Paul. I have reread that several times since you posted it.