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  1. still trying to learn the holiday balance

    GOD BLESS YOU!!I HOPE YOU HAVE A GREAT THANKSGIVING WITH THOSE GRANDBABIES. CHILDREN ARE SUCH BLESSINGS!! YOU ARE A BLESSING. I HOPE WE CAN CONTINUE TO TALK. THANK YOU FOR SHARING WITH ME IT MEANS ALOT
  2. still trying to learn the holiday balance

    THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR STORY WITH ME I REALLY APPRECIATE IT. I HAVE LEARNED THAT I CAN'T DO IT ALL. I HAVE LEARNED TO BALANCE THINGS OUT SOMEWHAT. NOT TO SAY I DON'T FEEL GUILTY AT TIMES. BUT I TELL MYSELF I'M NO GOOD TO ANYONE IF I'M WORE OUT. IT DOESN'T SEEM TO TAKE MUCH TO FEEL WORE OUT THESE DAYS. MY FAMILY LOST MY BROTHER HIS WIFE AND TWO CHILDREN ALL AT ONE TIME 16 YEARS AGO. THEY HAD BEEN ON A CAMPING TRIP WITH MY PARENTS. MY BROTHERS TENT WAS RUN OVER BY A VAN FULL OF TEENAGERS IN THE EARLY MORNING. SO WE HAVE BEEN THREW ALOT. I THOUGHT IT WOULD DESTROY MY FAMILY,BUT IN THE END IT MADE US STRONGER. WE CHERISHED OUR FAMILY MOMENTS SO MUCH MORE AFTER THAT. SO WE HAD THE WAKE UP CALL THAT TOMORROW MAY NOT COME. SO I AM GRATEFUL FOR THE LITTLE THINGS.
  3. LAST YEAR I WAS CARING FOR MY FATHER DURING HIS SHORT FERIOUS ILLNESS AND IT WAS HARD TO DO THANKSGIVING AND CHRISTMAS AND KEEP IT AS NORMAL AS POSSIBLE FOR THE KIDS. MY FATHER PASSED AWAY IN JAN. OF THIS YEAR AND MY MOTHER-IN-LAW WAS DIAGNOSED WITH CANCER AGAIN FOR THE 3RD TIME IN 6 YEARS. SHE IS NOW IN HOSPICE CARE AT THE NURSING HOME WE VISIT HER ALEAST 2 TIMES A WEEK. I FEEL LIKE I'M HAVING THIS TERRIBLE NIGHTMARE THAT HAS REPEATED ITSELF. MY YOUNGEST DAUGHTER HAS SUFFERED EMOTIONALLY WITH THE LOSS OF GRANDPA AND KNOWING THAT GRANDMA IS GOING TO DIE SOON ALSO. SHE IS 6 YEARS OLD. I HAVE AN APPOINTMENT FOR HER TO GO TALK TO A SPECIALIST. IT WAS SO EASY TO MAKE HER APPOINTMENT AND SO HARD FOR ME TO MAKE ONE FOR MYSELF. SO HOPEFULLY I WILL FIND WHAT IM LOOKING FOR HERE.
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