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  1. Welcome newcomers... I am so sorry for your losses. It is so hard to lose a parent. It is often not until they are gone that we realize how much they were a part of us and our lives. You made a great first step, talking about how you were feeling. It really helps to share you feelings. I highly recommend talking to a grief counselor, keeping a journal and just talking about what is on your mind. Sharing on the board will help also. I hope you will keep coming back. Julie
  2. Carol and Betty, I am so sorry that you both are going through rough times right now. The most important thing to do is realize you aren't alone. There are people that do understand what you are going through. Talking about your feelings really helps move past them. Also, maybe talking to a grief counselor about how you are feeling. Keeping a journal about what is going on helps too. Coming to the board and sharing is also a suggestion. I know you both are strong and you will make it. Take care, Julie
  3. Loss of a Friend

    I'm so sorry for what you are going through.I know it is hard to not be able to be there with your sister and your family to grieve. It really helps to write down how you feel. Maybe write your sister a long letter to share your feelings with her and to support her. Just keep talking about how you feel and it will get easier. Take care, Julie
  4. Loss of a Grandparent

    Cerenity, I'm sorry for your loss of you grandfather. It will be hard for awhile, but you'll make it through. Please take care of you. Julie
  5. Loss of a Sibling

    I'm so sorry for you guys losses. What you have gone through it tough. It is great that you are here sharing and talking about your feelings. It really helps. I hope you will continue to join us here and let us know how you are doing.
  6. Today I Am...

    That was a wonderful post waynesliljeanne. I completely agree with you.
  7. Sudden or Violent Death of Partner

    Mark, I'm so sorry for your losses. What a tremendous amount of turmoil to go through in such a short period. I hope you will continue to come and share with us and let us know how you are doing? Julie
  8. Loss of a Friend

    Welcome newcomers. I am so sorry for your losses. I hope you will continue to share and let us help you heal. Stay strong and keep the faith. You will heal, but it will take time. Take Care, Julie
  9. I Am Just Grieving...

    Debbie, I am so sorry for what your sister and your family is going through. This is such a difficult issue to deal with. As a woman that has had multiple miscarriages, I know the pain she is going through. Really, all you can do is pray for them, be there for her, listen, be a shoulder to lean on. She will need you. Time will heal, but it will take time. God Bless, Julie
  10. Anger and Depression

    Waynesliljeanne -- That was wonderful post and I agree with you totally. Trying to understand human behavior is impossible. We often do things we know better than to do, but do it anyways, never expecting negative results. Cloet -- I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you will continue to share. Talking about your feelings help you sort them out. Let us help you through your pain. Take care, Julie
  11. I Believe in God...

    Just saying a prayer for all of you. Just remember, Phillipians 4:13 'I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.' God Bless, Julie
  12. ADC's, Visions & Dreams

    Kevinswife, I can't imagine what you are going through right now. I am not sure what to tell you about what all of this means. I am sure there are others on here that might have more experience. I just wanted to welcome you and let you know that if you give it a few days, you will hear from someone that can relate to you. Take care, Julie
  13. Loss of a Sibling

    I am so sorry for your loss Littletwerp. I can't imagine what you are going through. You and your family are in my thoughts and my heart goes out to you. Take care, Julie
  14. Loss of a Sibling

    I am so sorry for your loss Littletwerp. I can't imagine what you are going through. You and your family are in my thoughts and my heart goes out to you. Take care, Julie
  15. Young Widowhood

    Thank you diesel for your story of hope! Take care, Julie
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