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  1. Loss of an Adult Child

    It sounds like everybody got through the holidays.. This is always a good thing, as they can and sometimes do bring about such feelings of sadness~ Carol, I am so happy to see that you have your furry little friend to keep you company these days~ They sure have a way of helping, don't they? I am sending love to all and know that I carry a piece of each of you in my heart, always...
  2. Loss of an Adult Child

    This is just so unfathomable, all of it. To think that these families will one day be able to even begin to carry on is unimagineable, yet I believe that they will. They are in the throws of a living war, and my heart is brought back to the early morning hours of Danny's accident, knowing that my life could never go on, and then, like all of ours here, it miraculously did. Prayers and hope for one hour, day at a time to shine brighter than ever...
  3. Loss of an Adult Child

    For ALL~ Am here, still, plugging right along~ Have been out of town quite a bit, connecting with some old, dear friends~ Trip planned to Florida to see my family mid October, then will drive to see Jackie and the kids for Halloween, Danny's 31st birthday~ xoxoxox Battling cervical radiculopathy- UGH- Had a HORRENDOUS episode with it back in May, flare ups from time to time- In the throws of one now, so must just rest in- I have herniated discs, and evidentally the discs sit on nerves... No insurance, so I just ride it out... "A test... This is only a test" Much Love to ALL~ mamabets and Danny, her little wink from here, there and everywhere
  4. Loss of an Adult Child

    For briansdad~ Hard to believe... What an AMAZING celebration, always~ I love you and am sending big, huge hugs your way!! Much Love~ mamabets and Danny, her little wink from here, there and everywhere
  5. Loss of an Adult Child

    For mikesmom~ So sorry Carol that the 20th came and went. What's important is that your dear Mike is celebrated each and every day in my heart... Please remember that always, OK?? I love you, and Danny and I are sending big wishes your way!!! HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY, MIKE!!!! Much Love~ Betsy and Danny, her little wink from here, there and everywhere
  6. Loss of an Adult Child

    For briansdad~ AMAZING video!!!! Felt like I was right there with them all!! Thank you!!!!! Much Love~ mamabets and Danny, her little wink from here, there and everywhere
  7. Loss of an Adult Child

    For briansdad~ A beautiful video- Thank you so much, and thanks go to all of you that went to MN and remembered all of our babies... I love you all~ Much Love~ mamabets and Danny, her little wink from here, there and everywhere
  8. Loss of an Adult Child

    For homeschoolmom~ Awwww!!!! What kind of puppy??? Much Love~ mamabets and Danny, her little wink from here, there and everywhere
  9. Does everyone here believe in "God?"

    For briansdad~ AMEN!!!!! All we have to do is "believe..." An attatched photo that appeared in the driveway a few years back after Danny's passing.. I am sure it has been posted here before, I know I have this one on his website too... Miracle upon miracle signs that there is a God, and that we will see our angels again, because they are not that far away... The "pain" makes it feel like they are... The proof is that they are not~ Their lives included their leaving here too soon~ Too soon for US, not for THEM... Just IMAGINE the paradise!!! Much love~ mamabets and danny, her little wink from here, there and everywhere
  10. Death of my 12 year old son

    For kenpope~ Once again, I share this pain with a tortured parent... I am so, so, so sorry, yet I must say that you have come to the right place. Beyond Indigo is filled with stories like yours, for we are all surving this nightmare. My son, Danny, passed away at the age of 25, in June of 2004. Yes, it most definately does get softer. Easier is a word that I just simply removed from my vocabulary... Softer is the perfect word for this... One day you will say to yourself..."Wow.. Is this MY heart that is continuing to beat??", at which point you grab at this glimmer of hope, and just naturally, somehow, build from there. You will love to laugh again.. You will sing and you will dance. You will hug like never before, it will seem, and life will have a HUGE sense of purpose. I promise you this~ Continue to reach out to those that are there for you...xo A precious little boy, Ken. Another beautiful face of an angel that will hold on to my heartstrings forever... Much Love~ mamabets and Danny, her little wink from here, there and everywhere
  11. Loss of an Adult Child

    For All~ I am SPEECHLESS at the sight of these photos.. They are headed straight to Danny's website!! Thank you!!!! Much Love~ mamabets and Danny, her little wink from here, there and everywhere
  12. Loss of an Adult Child

    FOR ALL~ Welcome back, having experienced this glimpse life like you have just experienced... THIS past weekend will positively enhance a love shared among warriors.. Beautiful, angelic warriors... For those of you that were in MN, I am so happy and I feel those hugs that you all grasped for and embraced. Each and every one of them!!... For those of us that were not, we feel your energy!! Like one big slumber party... A gathering of long lost friends... Simply AMAZING!!! I am so anxious to see pics!! I want to hear that you are all safe and sound... I love you all~ mamabets and Danny, her little wink from here, there and everywhere
  13. Loss of an Adult Child

    For ericasmom~ How cool if we could get together next time I am there?? Will let you know, FOR SURE!! Much Love~ mamabets and Danny, her little wink from here, there and everywhere
  14. Loss of an Adult Child

    For mpsmom~ You are such an inspiration, Marcia~ You are helping me so much... You clearly are grabbing life...Making a choice to LIVE, which is such a celebration for our dear Bethany~ My brother and sister-in-law live in Vegas- He has a huge eye care pratice.. Nevada Eye Care, I believe. They have 2 daughters- He is the "littlest" brother- I am one of 5... My mother always said..."We can do anything as long as nothing happens to one of these kids..." Then, it did~ I have an amazing family, and I feel for all of them. Paul, being the eye doctor, was the one who had to explain "occipital brain injury" (behind the eye) injury, Danny's, to our almost 80 year old mother, at the time. Mom was here with me when his accident occured- Such a blur, as I DO remember crawling up the stairs to find her and my Jackie.. God awful~ The blur was safe. It remained for awhile, then reality hit... Life as we know it now... We DO journey on, just like our angels...xoxox Much Love, mamabets and Danny, her little friend (LOL!!!- TYPO?? I think NOT) and wink from here, there and everywhere
  15. Loss of an Adult Child

    For ericasmom~ And... Baby Reagan!!! She was born on June 26th- xoxo Much Love, mamabets and Danny, her little wink from here, there and everywhere
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