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  1. Loss of an Adult Child

    dear broken hearted, my name is charlotte, i lost my son three days from his 20th birthday two years ago. I read your story, and i feel exactly the same way, the same thoughts, i thought i was going crazy for awhile, i have 5 other children at home. my son anthony chavez loved lowrider cars, he built and owned two beautiful cars, one was a 1969 impala and a 75 lincon. the impala was having problems with the hydrualics on 11/13/03 three days from his b-day 11/10/83.it had snowed that day. i had made him a b-day dinner that evening, that was the last i saw him alive,believe me if i would have known that was my last night i wouldnt have let him out the door that evening. my son was crushed by his car , no authority could have saved him, couldnt open the security gate on time, broken hearted, may god bless you and your family. remeber our sons are with god and our angels just call and open your heart and he will come, your friend charlotte chavez in N,M.
  2. Grief and the Court System

    dear josh's mom, I want to tell you that i read your story and my heart goes out to you, I too lost a son, my anthony v. chavez, on 11-10-03 he had turn 20 years old, on 11-13-05 three days after his 20th birthday, we celebrated his bd with a meal at our home ,his girlfiend and his daughter amor was there. it has snowed and he drives a 1969 lowrider impala , he lovesw to drive, that night his hydraulics from his car froze underneath, and he said to me his last words " mom, I have to go b4 it starts to snow more. I cant drive my car like this ," what happened is that the hydraulics left the car on three wheel motion and he could nt drive in the snow tht way, he went home ,put on his overalls and had his girlfriend hold a flashlight towards the hydraulic that was froze, he went underneath the car , the jack slipped and fell on my anthony, his girlfriend did call the paramedics and police , my son lived in a security area with a large gate with code enterance only. the paramedics got there on time but couldnt get in they didnt not now the code # to open the gate, time went buy, they waited for a car to come to the premises to open the gate for them, a total of 15-18 mins passed they finally got in used the jaws of live to remove my son, he wasent breathing it was too late , he survived in the hospital on machines for two weeks, each day the doctors would tell me he will not regenerate , he lost too much oxygen to his brain, no one can survive that, i didnt give up i prayed day and night, i hav 5 other choldren to care for, its been a year and a half and i still havent paid for his funeral barial cost,i'am ashamed of my self to even say this , i cant afford to. my son 's car was to be painted and entered in a car show to win a lowrider contest for a trophy, he has never won a trophy, his uncle and grandfather own show cars and they have trophys, he said that this year mom it my turn , that will never happen. I still havent spoke with a lawyer , i feel i might have case due that the paramedics and police and state police dept didnt no the number to open the gate ,and when they did they ripped the car to shreds withthe jaws of life, dont make since, if i can change time i would remove that gate, i have to pass by that gate everyday to take my children to school, i like hold my breath until i am over the other side ,like swimming , that i can do, dealing with the loss of my son hurts so much i lost so much weight, i barley want to dress or do anything for my self, for the other children i 'am there for them, even though they have been in and out of detention homes for the anger that they have with the death of big brother my childrens ages are 2,13,15,17,19 and 3 yr old granddaughter from my anthony, my heart will ease alittle if i can get his car up and going, enter it in a car show win a trophy in honnor on my anthony. thank you indigo for having this site. my praysers for all of you ANTHONY'S MOM
  3. Prayer Requests

    HI DIANE, I WOULD LIKE TO SAY A PRAYER FOR YOUR FRIEND BETTY, I LOST A 20 YR. SON ON 11/24/03. IT IS THE WORST PAIN IV'E BEEN THROUGH.WORSE THEN GIVING BIRTH 6 TIMES. MY LIFE HAS CHANGED SO MUCH. MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU BETTY, I ALSO LOST MY MOTHER TO BREAST CANCER 13 YRS. AGO. DEAR LORD, PLEASE GIVE BETTY THE STRENGTH TO ENJOY LIFE WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS. LET HER ENJOY THE BEAUTIFUL SUNSETS AND SUNRISES. THE WARM SUN ON HER FACE, GIVE HER THE JOY OF BEING WITHHER FAMILY AND FRIENDS,RELEASE THE PAIN THAT SHE IS GOING THRU.COMFORT HER FROM HER PAIN. GOD BLESS YOU BETTY MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU YOUR FRIEND ANTHONY'S MOM(CHARLOTTE)
  4. my name is charlotte, i lost a 20 yr old on 11/24/03 its been the longest year of my life. my son was working on his low rider a 1969 chevy impala, three days after his 20th birthday.on 11/13/03. my son Anthony v. Chavez was underneath his car, the jack slipped and the car fell and crushed him, he lived in a security area with a gate. anthony's girlfriend called the paramdics but the fire dept. and the police, and paramedics couldn't get in because they didn't know the code to open the gate, time went by,we are guessing it may have been more that 18 min. they finally got in to assist him, they used the jaws of life and ripped up his car,with in two min they got him out from under the car but yet it took them 18 mins to get to him,i believe if their wasen't a gate, my anthony would have lived, i haven't started a lawsuit against the complex, i don't know where to start or who to talk to. if any body has a good lawyer please write to me @ po box 593 las vegasd,nm 87701 or call me @ 505-425-9565 thank you, lets all try to have a new year prayers for all anthony's mom(charlotte)
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