Members Bigkaz Posted October 30, 2014 Members Report Share Posted October 30, 2014 I just can't seem to move on from the pain and sadness and loneliness Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mandy's mom Posted October 30, 2014 Members Report Share Posted October 30, 2014 I am very sorry for your loss. I lost my daughter 5 weeks ago. I find the top post "Loss of an adult child" has been very helpful for me. It is an ongoing conversation. It offers so much support. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members BILL16WEST Posted November 1, 2014 Members Report Share Posted November 1, 2014 Mandy's mum and Shel's mum sending my love and sharing your pain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mandy's mom Posted November 2, 2014 Members Report Share Posted November 2, 2014 Bill16west - Thank you. I hope you have also found comfort here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members 1020314_alwaysmyloves Posted November 11, 2014 Members Report Share Posted November 11, 2014 Hi ... I'm so sorry to hear about your darling daughter having to leave you so soon .. My heart breaks for you .. Cancer is one of the worst things that has ever afflicted so many ...worse our own babies .. I never imagined in my life that the little boy who was my first born would leave me so soon.. I just buried my oldest child Jorgie at age 22 .. 4 weeks ago, I feel your pain and know the struggle as we had to be there with our child to see them suffering so much and be so involved and occupied with treatments and all of it only to have time run out and not even be able to stop to realize that one day it would all be over because we always had hope it wouldn't come to an end .. My son suffered for over 2 years with sarcoma bone cancer .. He fought to the very end with all his might .. I'm very proud of him and sweet heart that he did it all for his family .. He'd look me in the eyes and tell me how he was doing it all for me and his brother and sisters .... Please know that YOU are not alone and the constant pain that you feel in your chest .. The lump in your throat that doesn't hardly leave you alone is what I also go through each day. The million and one thoughts that go through your head ..I find myself at times just wishing I could lie to myself and just think he's at the hospital instead and not gone forever .... I'm sending you a very very big hug and please know your definetly not alone in your feelings .. Please share and talk about your beautiful daughter here with us .. Remembering the good moments is what my goal is everyday and not the pain and suffering .. Gd bless you and your family at this time .. Marsha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members BILL16WEST Posted November 11, 2014 Members Report Share Posted November 11, 2014 Shel's mum,Mandy's mum,always my loves. I wish I could find a safe haven for us all in this world of grief truly but in my case where I think I am getting better in some ways one day it just comes crashing down the next day and I am back to square one again.I so wish I could get stronger for my wife and two sons but Carrie was my baby and like your own children I loved her so much and felt so helpless to have to stand by and let the evil called cancer take her from us.Shel I am of the same and feel your pain but know that I am with you on your journey if that is possible,Mandy's mum I do and have found comfort because I am with friends who have lost a child and clearly loved them as I loved Carrie, alwaysmyloves I am truly sorry for the loss of your son but you know his suffering is over and if I could wish for nothing else in my life it would be that for them all, I would like to think that our children are together in a better place at peace and in perfect happiness watching over us until we all meet again. Bill.X Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Abra Halls Mom Posted November 11, 2014 Members Report Share Posted November 11, 2014 I can SO relate, Shel's mom. My beautiful daughter, Abra, was diagnosed with inoperable brain cancer on August 3rd, 2012. She fought valiantly for nearly two years but the cancer spread to her brain lining and spinal cord and she lost her fight on July 3, 2014. I got to hold her in my arms the last few hours of her life and, although she wasn't conscious, they said she could hear us. It was torture to watch because she fought to the very end, but I wouldn't have wanted to be anywhere else. But that picture will haunt me for the rest of my life. She suffered so much due to her illness, and I suffered with her. I am still suffering, but now it is because she is gone. She was born August 11, 1986 and she was an amazing child. I am trying to make sense of this, and not give in to self destructive urges. If it weren't for her 24 year-old brother, I would have made sure I went with her. My depression and grief are overwhelming. It is affecting my job and I am afraid I may lose that, on top of everything else. I lost my youngest brother in 1981. My only other sibling, also a brother, took his own life in 1984. A fiance killed himself in 1994, And my ex-huisband and father of my children died of an accidental drug overdose in 2006.I sometimes wonder what this life is all about and why some people have to suffer so much? One more loss and I think I will go over the edge. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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