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My mum passed away yesterday


missingmymum

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My mum passed away yesterday after a 4 year fight with secondary breast cancer in her neck.  I live in America and have for the past 5 years, my mum lived in scotland and I only got to see her when she flew over and I flew over there, she kept her cancer hidden from me for 3 years as the chemo was working good and this last year I had my second child in january, my grandmother passed away from lung cancer (my mums mum), 2 weeks after I had my daighter. I cried over my gran and was extremely sad but now I can't stop crying and wishing I had been by my mums side the whole time, I wish I had hugged her more and been with her throughout everything and it's too late, I just want to hug her and lay by her side and tell her how much I love her and I can't, she was only 55. She loved my 4 year old son so much, she had the biggest heart in the world and I can't believe she is gone

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Dear missingmymum,

You are in my prayers. I understand how you are feeling. I lost my mom to a long battle with cancer. It is so hard. My dad passed away not too long after to a heart attack. I know the loss you feel for your daughter as well. I am so sorry for my kids as well that they don't have either of my parents to give them the love of a grandparent. I hope that you are comforted knowing that your mom is in peace along with her mom. No more pain and no more of that lousy chemo. I am praying for you and hope that you feel a little better with each new day.

Violet

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Missingmymum,

 

I'm so sorry.  You've lost your mum so young, and you've got your little ones to care for while you're grieving, which I know can be tough.  Hang in there.  

 

Lighting a candle,

 

notkate

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