Members missingmymum Posted September 1, 2014 Members Report Share Posted September 1, 2014 My mum passed away yesterday after a 4 year fight with secondary breast cancer in her neck. I live in America and have for the past 5 years, my mum lived in scotland and I only got to see her when she flew over and I flew over there, she kept her cancer hidden from me for 3 years as the chemo was working good and this last year I had my second child in january, my grandmother passed away from lung cancer (my mums mum), 2 weeks after I had my daighter. I cried over my gran and was extremely sad but now I can't stop crying and wishing I had been by my mums side the whole time, I wish I had hugged her more and been with her throughout everything and it's too late, I just want to hug her and lay by her side and tell her how much I love her and I can't, she was only 55. She loved my 4 year old son so much, she had the biggest heart in the world and I can't believe she is gone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Violet11 Posted September 2, 2014 Members Report Share Posted September 2, 2014 Dear missingmymum, You are in my prayers. I understand how you are feeling. I lost my mom to a long battle with cancer. It is so hard. My dad passed away not too long after to a heart attack. I know the loss you feel for your daughter as well. I am so sorry for my kids as well that they don't have either of my parents to give them the love of a grandparent. I hope that you are comforted knowing that your mom is in peace along with her mom. No more pain and no more of that lousy chemo. I am praying for you and hope that you feel a little better with each new day.Violet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members notkate Posted September 5, 2014 Members Report Share Posted September 5, 2014 Missingmymum, I'm so sorry. You've lost your mum so young, and you've got your little ones to care for while you're grieving, which I know can be tough. Hang in there. Lighting a candle, notkate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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